Ugh!!! My day seriously COULD NOT get any worse

My appt. was horrible I was so anxious and excited this morning and then, in an instant, my world fell apart---for the second time.


Our baby is dead. Well, there never was a HB, and there won't ever be a HB, so I guess I should say that the baby was never living.

All my RE could say was that there was "material" in a gestational sac, but the yolk sac was abnormally shaped and there really wasn't anything that he could identify as the "baby"

He told us to come back in a week "just to make sure", but he said that he is NOT optimistic at all and we need to anticipate a MC. They drew my HCG today, so hopefully that will give us some insight into what's going on. I can't believe it! Three babies in three years


Here are the only pictures of "Tres" our third precious miracle. Asher and Noah aren't alone up there

[Em2528]

Brandi, I dont even know what to say because im in shock. I wanted to say im so sorry your appt went the way it did, but I also want to tell you to not loose hope yet because you are 6 weeks and I know that thats about when the hb starts, so its definatly still possible that it was just still to early to see anything....I know a few girls on here that had a u/s in there 6th week, like 6w4d or something and didnt see a hb, but went back a few days later and did...or some that didnt see the hb till later in the 6th week, and you are just 6w today. I will keep you in my prayers, but dont let those drs make you feel like there is no hope. Love you sweetie!!!

[*Mommy2Camden*]

I'm so extremely sorry for your loss.

[MommaLee]

I'm so sorry Brandi! I pray there is hope.....remember when Rebecca (rebeccabaltimore) posted that there were no hb's for the triplets and her doctor gave her not so good news...and then she went back sometime later and all was well!

I'm praying this is just a mistake and it is just too early!

[downunderchick]

I posted in your other thread but im keeping my fingers crossed the girls are right and hopefully its too early
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[Lo_and_Behold]

(((((((((massive hugs))))))))))) Brandi. I am so sorry. I hope it was just too early & everything will be fine next week when you go back. Doctors can make mistakes too! Many T&Ps coming your way!!

[Denise123]

My heart and prayers go out to you!

[KCMomma]

OMG I am so unbelievably sorry. I saw this post and my heart dropped. I am soooo sorry. I will be praying that the doctors are wrong. Please KUP!

[karenwalter]

I am so sorry Brandi. All I can do is sending you lots of hugs and prayers. I know you must be feeling horrible right now. Sorry you are going through this.

[CandaceDianne]

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry!!!! I will be thinking and praying for you during this difficult time!!!

[Hoosier Kitty]

OMG I'm shocked! I really really hope the doctor is wrong and you have a healthy baby! You are in my thoughts.

[Gray_baby]

I'm so very sorry.

[fromustobaby]

I am so so sorry...


Am hoping that its like Rebecca baltimore - in that baby is just a bit slow growing at first...

[Lauren S]

I am so, so sorry Brandi! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Boo]

I am so sorry Brandi. I hope and pray that you'll have a HB next week.

[Celry]

I'm so sorry. I hope next week goes much better.

[ChristinaR]

OMG I can't even imagine what you are going through right now Brandi. I am so truly sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope it just means it was still too soon for a heartbeat and that your appt next week will be better. Huge HUGS hun!!!

Oh Brandi....I am so, so sorry. I'm praying with all my might that the doctor was wrong. This isn't fair *huge huge hugs*

[stlgirl]

I'm so so sorry...really hoping that it was just too early and that HCG shows you can still have hope...

[~Andrea~]

Oh Brandi. I am so incediably sorry. I hope your HCG levels give you some insight.