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December 17th, 2009, 05:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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December 17th, 2009, 05:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
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Erika, my heart is breaking for you. You are such a strong woman and I can't even comprehend the pain that you have struggled through. I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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December 17th, 2009, 05:44 PM
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Missing my angel baby!
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Join Date: Oct 2009
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I just read your blog and I am in tears... you are such a strong woman and I admire you for staying sane... I know that no words can probably help... but I will keep you and your family in my thougths and prayers. God bless you and we are here for you...
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December 17th, 2009, 06:01 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Maryland
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big huge ((hugs)).. I commented on your blog yesterday - I am so incredibly sorry Erika - my heart is so heavy for you and Matthew.. I really hope they can help you both figure out why this keeps happening because I don't know anyone more deserving than the two of you ((hugs))
You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
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December 17th, 2009, 06:18 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: MA
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Oh my gosh that had me in tears  I can't even imagine everything you've gone through and can't tell you how sorry I am. You are such a strong amazing woman and you and Matthew are such a wonderful couple. I'll be praying for you both.
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December 17th, 2009, 06:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Erika,
I am proud of you for telling your story. You have amazing strength and courage to be able to put it all out there. I know there are no words that I can say to make this better but I can tell you that I relate. I have had 4 miscarriages this year so if you need to email or vent or just chat please feel free.
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December 17th, 2009, 06:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: WI
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Thank you for sharing that. I am in tears and my heart is breaking for you. It was so hard to read, I can't imagine how hard it is for Matthew and you. My emotions were up and down as I kept hoping the u/s was wrong too.
I don't want to sound weird or stalkerish, but I pray for the two of you every week while at church. I hope one of these days all of our prayers are answered and the two of you have the baby you deserve. I hope that your little miracle is able to provide you with the answers you need to one day give him/her a little brother or sister.
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December 17th, 2009, 07:20 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Every time you posted, I checked your FF, hoping and hoping that it wouldn't be updated...
Then I saw on FF this week what had happened, and it broke my heart...you and your husband are so strong and brave...I hope that with the testing you can get some of the answers that are so needed...
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December 17th, 2009, 07:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: St. Louis, MO
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Erika,
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you can get answers soon, and that you will someday soon have the baby you so want and deserve.
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December 17th, 2009, 07:42 PM
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Platinum Super Mommy
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Location: ohio
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Im am so so sorry! i am also in tears after reading your story! my heart just breaks for you! you are such a strong woman! and your husband is so strong too!
i hope you are able to get some answers with these tests!
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December 17th, 2009, 07:43 PM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: UK
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Erika....
my heartbreaks for you....i'm crying for you. I hope you know you will continually be in my T&Ps, that you get answers that will bring you the baby you long and deserve. I can only imagine what you just went through, thank you for sharing your story with us. HUGE
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December 17th, 2009, 07:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Hoosier Girl!
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I read it again and still made me cry. I am so sorry and I am praying that the test results will give you some peace either way. My heart is breaking for you and Matthew and I still have faith that God will give you your miracle baby in His time.
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December 17th, 2009, 08:06 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Alabama
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Erika, I am so very sorry. I just cried and cried reading your story. I think you've done all the right things that feel right to you. I can totally relate to your story, the same thing happened to me about 12 weeks and my dr. gave me the same options although she did say I could wait to m/c on my own, which is what I chose. I think the moment I heard the same words from the u/s tech my whole world crashed.
You are such a strong woman for going through this and I hope you find a beautiful resting place for your little one. I know it will be beautiful.
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December 17th, 2009, 08:08 PM
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Elliott's Mommy
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Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Erika, I hope you know that your story has touched my heart so deeply. I feel so much sorrow for you and Matthew, as truly there are few more deserving of a child than you two. I pray for your peace and solace at this time of pain. You are stronger than can be imagined and I am in awe. I wish there was more I could say to bring you comfort.
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December 17th, 2009, 09:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Utah
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I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know you well, but I am here if you ever need anything. I hope you can find some answers.
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December 18th, 2009, 05:08 AM
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Formerly LyndaSLP
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Long Island, NY
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Oh Erika, I am so sorry. It breaks my heart to read your story. I hope you get some answers from the tests done. You and Matthew are in my thoughts and prayers.
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December 18th, 2009, 05:44 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,090
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You know I've kept you in my prayers, and I will continue to do that... I'm so very sorry.
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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December 18th, 2009, 06:21 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Canada
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Erika - than you for sharing your heartbreaking story! I will keep you all in my T & P.
I really hope you get some answers!
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December 18th, 2009, 06:45 AM
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Fist Pumping Champ
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: NY
Posts: 8,272
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I am so sorry for your loss! Keeping you in my T&Ps!
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December 18th, 2009, 08:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 4,980
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Heartbreaking...absolutely heartbreaking. I know that it is only your faith in God and love for one another that keeps you so strong. I pray every day that you get answers that lead you to your miracle.
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