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December 27th, 2009, 07:33 AM
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In my DDC. I know they are all trying to be nice and helpful, but I keep getting PMs from girls saying that they were in the same situation and they ended up having ectopic or failed pregnancies. That is NOT helping me right now! This is all I can think about and I need a little positive thinking!
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December 27th, 2009, 07:43 AM
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Uhhh.. why would they do that? I hope it's just unintentional on their part.. and I hope they stop it! Sending prayers your way..
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December 27th, 2009, 07:54 AM
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sorry they are being like that! you and your little bean will be in my thoughts!
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December 27th, 2009, 09:02 AM
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Sending extra prayers your way...that isn't very helpful of them.

When do you see the dr. again?
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December 27th, 2009, 09:06 AM
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Sorry you are having to go through all this stress. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Please keep us posted chica.
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December 27th, 2009, 09:16 AM
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Sorry they are making you stressed. Still thinking about you and your baby bean.
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December 27th, 2009, 09:24 AM
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I go back to my OB on Wednesday. I am having no more cramps and only brown spotting when I wipe. The HCG levels just make me soooo nervous. I am just hoping and praying to see my little bean on that US on Wednesday morning!!
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December 27th, 2009, 09:53 AM
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Ugh they cant take you in any sooner?! That would drive me mad.....
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December 27th, 2009, 10:28 AM
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the longer we wait the more likely we will see something on the US if there is something to see. She said a week was appropriate.
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December 27th, 2009, 11:31 AM
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Why in the world would someone say that to you?! I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are in my thoughts.
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December 27th, 2009, 12:38 PM
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T&P's are with you....XXXX
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December 27th, 2009, 02:53 PM
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December 28th, 2009, 07:44 AM
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Oh sweetie, I'm sorry that some people can be so insensitive! I hope and pray that everything is just fine! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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December 28th, 2009, 09:08 AM
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Thanks girls. I know that things aren't looking 100%.. but I just can't believe that they would remind me every post of how things don't look good. Don't they think I know that??? Or else I wouldn't post about it! I know they are just trying to help... but it's not helping. I have to stay positive... because I know medically and in my heart there is still a little hope.
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December 28th, 2009, 09:30 AM
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when I found out I was pregnant (after trying almost 2 years) I called my dr who told me he was worried b/c I had just had surgery and I may have a etopic pg but he was leaving in an hour to go out of town for a week...I started spotting this was almost 6 weeks so I freaked out that for sure it was over and I went to the hospital and the u/s tech told me that the baby was measuring at 4 weeks and there was no HB so I was really upset when my dr came back a few days later I was still spotting but didnt pass anything and my HCG level were still rising but not doubling so he gave me another U/S and he said we have a HB and he is ok...since then my pg has been very uneventful and my son is healthy and due in a few week....

Sorry this is long but I just wanted to let you know that there is a chance and also try and stay away from the pg related stuff that you know will make you upset that is what I did and tried to stay busy...easier said then done I know....
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December 28th, 2009, 09:34 AM
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Thanks for that story! Encouraging stories make my day these days! I'm so glad your pregnancy has been uneventful since then. I hope and pray that this is what has happened with my baby and that either i'm off on my dates or he's just a little slow. My DH said... well he is related to my family. We were all a little slow when we started off!!! lol!!!
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December 28th, 2009, 10:58 AM
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Hang in there. I haven't been posting there much lately either because there seems to be a group that's really willing to jump in with all the negative and not so much with things that might be reassuring. You are in my T&P!
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December 28th, 2009, 11:08 AM
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Some people just don't think I am keeping you and your bean in my thoughts, maybe he/she is just shy! I hope everything turns out okay for you
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December 29th, 2009, 10:55 AM
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I'm sorry. After reading this i now realize you could take my post in your other thread as insensitive. I definitely was not trying to make you feel any worse (if that's what it did). I've definitely heard stories similar to yours where the pregnancy turns out just fine, i just feel i should be honest about my own story. There is always hope that everything is okay and i really hope you get that amazing news.
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December 29th, 2009, 11:54 AM
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oh Kara... Im sorry that people in your DDC are being insensitive to you at this dificult time... I hope everything is perfect and your baby bean is happy and healthy!!! lots of HUGS and T&P headed your way!!!
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