I just wanted to pop in and add that when I was pregnant, no one knew but not too long ago, stupidly because I was once again having a TTC breakdown I posted on FB "[something like this] I don't understand why things are the way they are sometimes. Hoping our 2 could become 3 one day" I'm 100% on the 2 become 3 thing because I was trying to be somewhat vague but still get it off my chest (because I was upset more than just being able to release on JM) and I swear if like 8 people didn't comment on it and tell me that it would happen and so on and THEN my aunt and cousin had the audacity to have a conversation among the two of them within my status update about one not realizing we were trying for "pitter patter" and the other one trying to figure it out! I was like
It isn't exactly the same thing but I know that my best friend and I had a HUGE falling out when she had her baby, we weren't talking when she found out she was pregnant, and had no clue until after the baby was born (had her blocked on MySpace) and I did send her a message. We ended up talking and she cried her eyes out about some of the stuff she had done, so maybe it is a weird peace branch! I know that I don't bury the hatchet very well anyways, but who know?