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January 5th, 2010, 04:19 PM
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Has anyone else had people come through the wood works after they found out you were pregnant - those people that you had a history with or had some bad blood - reach out and try to be your "friend" since they found out you were pregnant?

I swear - I've had at least 4! What makes pregnancy the peace branch? Why do you think that I will dislike you and what you've done less than I did before I was pregnant?

I got another one today... This chick has talked some serious crap and then all of a sudden - I get a random message on facebook today Congratulating DH & I on our pregnancy! She's the reason my SIL & I have issues - and now all of a sudden it's OK to send me a message?
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January 5th, 2010, 06:19 PM
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I just wanted to pop in and add that when I was pregnant, no one knew but not too long ago, stupidly because I was once again having a TTC breakdown I posted on FB "[something like this] I don't understand why things are the way they are sometimes. Hoping our 2 could become 3 one day" I'm 100% on the 2 become 3 thing because I was trying to be somewhat vague but still get it off my chest (because I was upset more than just being able to release on JM) and I swear if like 8 people didn't comment on it and tell me that it would happen and so on and THEN my aunt and cousin had the audacity to have a conversation among the two of them within my status update about one not realizing we were trying for "pitter patter" and the other one trying to figure it out! I was like

It isn't exactly the same thing but I know that my best friend and I had a HUGE falling out when she had her baby, we weren't talking when she found out she was pregnant, and had no clue until after the baby was born (had her blocked on MySpace) and I did send her a message. We ended up talking and she cried her eyes out about some of the stuff she had done, so maybe it is a weird peace branch! I know that I don't bury the hatchet very well anyways, but who know?
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January 5th, 2010, 07:54 PM
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I haven't and don't expect it. There was one person that I've known since 1st grade and she screwed me over on an apartment in college. I didn't talk to her for 7 years, although she always called me.....I finally just let it go and met up with her last year.....our relationship is definitely different.
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January 6th, 2010, 06:03 AM
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I really don't expect it - but have had it!

This chick is the reason why my SIL and I have the rocky relationship that we do.
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January 6th, 2010, 06:32 AM
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I don't really have anyone like that in my life, but if I did, it wouldn't surprise me if they said something. People love pregnant people.
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January 6th, 2010, 10:59 AM
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Rachel - I don't either. I got rid of them! But they just wanna creep back in!

Oh well!
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January 6th, 2010, 02:09 PM
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It's weird the people that come up at weddings, births and funerals. I find that with all of these things, it doesn't seem to matter what has happened in the past...people seem to think that it's their "get out of jail" free card, and I have no idea why.
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