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January 18th, 2010, 10:22 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Manitoba Canada
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In this instance, it's DH.
When we first got PG, I didn't want to know what we were having, I was excited about the idea of a surprise. DH was the opposite, he wanted to know...there was no way he was having this baby without knowing what we were having, adn that was all there was to it. I didn't like the idea, but got used to it, and was now very excited about finding out next week, and getting to call our LO by his/her name.
DH e-mails me this morning (we e-mail during the day all the time) and says...
"I don’t know for sure now if I want to know what baby is. What do you think?"
UGH!!! so now, I don't know what to do...  I am not used to the idea of knowing, and I don't know if I can wait to find out!!! sigh...please help girls!
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January 18th, 2010, 10:36 AM
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aka Aaron Nicole
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 16,080
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Lol Ask him why he change his mind. Anything brought this on to change his mind?
I'd be honest with him.  I would be like WHAT? 
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January 18th, 2010, 10:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 3,523
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I'm sorry Marci!! That makes it difficult on you!
I think that may be best to talk to your DH tonight and explain to him how you feel!
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January 18th, 2010, 11:39 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Utah
Posts: 2,655
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Just tell him what you want, if you feel strongly about it, odds are he doesn't since he keeps changing his mind.
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January 18th, 2010, 11:43 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Tyler, Texas
Posts: 2,438
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I agree with the others ask him why? And just tell him how you feel and what you want
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January 18th, 2010, 02:04 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Posts: 6,908
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If he changed is mind now, is he going to change it again later? I would hate to miss your chance and have to pay to find out later.
I agree with the other ladies, find out why he changed his mind.
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January 18th, 2010, 02:09 PM
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Izzy's Mom!
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Chilliwack, BC, Canada
Posts: 3,646
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Yell. Loud. LOL
Just be like WHAT?!? You convinced me to find out the gender in the first place when I didn't want to, now I've gotten used to the idea and I want to and you don't? No way buddy, this was YOUR idea so lets GO! LOL
Thats me, but me=hormones right now LMAO
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January 18th, 2010, 05:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Manitoba Canada
Posts: 6,750
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Talked to DH, and he agreed to go back to the original plan...if we can find out for free, then good...(so pray baby cooperates on Monday) if not, then it will be a surprise. (neither of us want to spend the $200 to find out. I'm glad it worked out!
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January 18th, 2010, 05:38 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: New York
Posts: 1,985
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Be surprised! Its what you originally wanted! Stick with it!!!
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January 18th, 2010, 08:59 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Edmonton AB, Canada
Posts: 5,911
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I like your plan! If baby wants you to know, baby will show you
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January 19th, 2010, 12:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Vancouver,BC
Posts: 1,832
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I like the plan Marci if the baby co operates great if not then it will be a surprise. I agree with the not wanting to pay the $200. We were like that too we wanted to find out but wouldn't pay to find out either. It worked out great that he co operated and was more than willing to show us that he is a boy.
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January 19th, 2010, 03:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Newfoundland
Posts: 1,350
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yay for finding out!! me and hubby couldnt wait to find out ( he wanted a boy sobad he wanted to know) so it was mutal decision now we decided the next baby we will have, we will keep it as a suprise!!!
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January 19th, 2010, 06:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: ID
Posts: 12,014
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Sounds like a good plan to me! Men can be so darn confusing!
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January 19th, 2010, 07:06 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Tyler, Texas
Posts: 2,438
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I'm praying that the baby participates.
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January 19th, 2010, 01:30 PM
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Izzy's Mom!
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Chilliwack, BC, Canada
Posts: 3,646
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Yay! I'm glad you didn't have to rage on him LOL and that you probably get to find out!
I'll bet she is plenty cooperative when your u/s comes around
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