Only 10 more days...only 10 more days...only 10 more days...I can make it without killing anyone! Be forewarned this is just a big ole long rant so feel free to ignore this post! I just have to get it out before I go all hormonal and kill someone!
Background for those of you who are unaware, we have had a friend of DH's living with us for OVER a year and a half now.
Originally it wasn't that big of a deal, but he was only supposed to be here for a few months until he "got back on his feet." Well you see how well that has worked out huh?! At the time we weren't planning on starting a family and had the entire upstairs empty so no big deal. But now it's been over a year and a half and I'm freaking 6 1/2 months pregnant for christ's sake!
So to start off this is literally the world's laziest guy on the planet. He's 30, works a mediocre job that he calls into at least once a week, has no girlfriend or even any prospects because he's too lazy to try, all his does is lay on our couch and watch tv or play on the computer. He won't even leave the house unless it involves food. He looks exactly like the guy from the hangover (the weird, fat, hairy one) and isn't much better. He does nothing around the house. He's NEVER bought or contributed in any way to groceries, NEVER cleaned a single dish even though he will dirty multiple cups in a day, has taken out the trash TWICE because DH forced him too. Oh and he BROKE our microwave so we've been without a microwave for nearly a year. Our house is not even 3 years old! We had it built in 2007. And worst of all, when trying to replace it we find out its a custom sized built in microwave so its like $500! We also have to get new couches when he moves out because the one his fat bum has been residing on smells like body odor and while we were on vacation in Vegas he was supposed to be watching our dog and wasn't and let him tear up the sofa cushions on the other couch. He was also supposed to water the grass that week and we came home to letters from our homeowners association because he completely let it die!
The room he stays in was empty because it was the future nursery (our other two bedrooms upstairs are already set up as guest rooms with furniture so he had to take the empty one.) Well right now the room STINKS and you can't even see the floor! All he has is a mattress on the floor, he doesn't own any other furniture and all his crap (including trash!) is just laying on the floor! Its absolutely horrid! Oh and the white door and the light have black handprints all over it! And let's not even begin to talk about the bathroom! It was BRAND NEW when he moved in, only used a couple of times when guests stayed with us. It is also disguisting. The few times we've had family in we've had to force him to clean it and even then I had to reclean it because it isn't up to my standards. Lord knows what shape he will leave these areas in. DH told him upon moving in that he had to keep things clean and he said he could be clean if he had too. Well that hasn't happened. So we told him when we started TTC, thinking most normal people would offer to move out right?! Not this guy! Then of course when we got pg DH told him he'd have to move out but didn't really give him a timeline thinking he'd want to leave right away. Well when that was apparent that he had no intentions of leaving anytime soon DH finally gave him a deadline, which is the end of this month. I was not happy about giving him so long but figured I could cope.
Well I am so DONE! And so is DH! We've had enough and are so ready for him to get out. But it looks like he is going to wait until the very last day to get out. He took vacation last week and didn't go apartment hunting or anything! Then this week he hasn't worked a full day all week! Yesterday DH got off early and we were trying to spend a nice day together and guess who shows up early from work?! Then today I was off trying to study for boards and he called in again today! So I'm sitting here trying to study and he's laying on the couch SNORING! He literally just slept all day on the couch snoring! So I didn't get any good studying in whatsoever! I can't wait until I have a day off to myself to get things done without him in the way! And he just yelled at my dog! Like full on yelling! What gives him the freaking right?! It took everything in me not to walk over there and beat him with a frying pan!
Okay I've wrote a freaking novel here. I'm just so fed up and these next 10 days cannot past fast enough! Luckily move out day happens to be my birthday! I'm more excited about getting my house back than my bday!
So in 10 days after steam cleaning the carpets we finally get to set up the furniture that's been sitting in boxes! Can't wait! If you got through this novel, thanks for listening to a hormonal woman vent! Haha!
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Probably why I hate being home alone so much! 
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