I think I'm leaving you already

angel3y35 · #1 May 26th, 2010, 05:23 AM

I think I'm leaving you ladies already. I had some pretty strong cramps last night and this morning. I had to take a test this morning for the military system to give me a referral to an OBGYN (even though I'm already seeing one and had gotten a positive test there) and it was negative. Not even a hint of a line. I'm calling my doc when they open to see if I can get a Beta but I'm pretty sure it's over already. Does anybody know when I should start bleeding if the test is already negative?

mlyster · #2 May 26th, 2010, 05:58 AM

Paige,

First of all I really hope you are not leaving us! Are the cramps similar to AF or worse than a normal AF - I realize that is hard to judge when you have Endo? Have you POAS? I know that many doctors urine tests are very very insensitive and if you are still early with dilution you might still be giving a negative if the test is not that sensitive. Please don't give up hope for your miracle baby just yet (I know I haven't)

As for the bleeding after a negative it is really hard to say. You will start to bleed once you HCG goes to 0 but you will not know that from a urine test. But if you are cramping badly it could only take a matter of hours this morning to start bleeding. I had 4 miscarriages and they all started a bit differently. One started with gushes of blood and then cramping, one started with lots of cramping followed by bleeding a few days later, the 3rd and 4th started just like any AF would, spotting then real bleeding, then cramping so it is really hard to say how this might go. The other thing I will tell you is that I was wrong with first one. I thought I had miscarried and a week later went for an ultrasound and baby was still there, heart beating away (I eventually miscarried for other reasons though). And I will also say that in my heart I knew it was over very early on in all 4 of my pregnancies.

I really hope this is not the end but if you need to chat PM me. Unfortunately I have a lot of experience in this area.

angel3y35 · #3 May 26th, 2010, 06:48 AM

Thanks. I did take a test of my own this morning, a FRER, and there was a SUPER faint line. A squinting to see line. The first one I took a few days ago was much, much darker. The cramps are worse than normal AF cramps, they just aren't constant. I do feel like it's over. I hope I'm wrong and something is just screwy with the tests this morning but I don't think I am.

Oreobaby · #4 May 26th, 2010, 06:57 AM

Sweetie...I really really hope you aren't leaving us.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this worry. I know that some cramping is normal, but also understand your worry and your concern. I will pray that everything is ok...please keep us posted.

MommaLee · #5 May 26th, 2010, 07:15 AM

I'm sorry

HUGS.

angel3y35 · #6 May 26th, 2010, 09:54 AM

I have an appointment at one for lab work, u/s, and to see the on call doctor.

Etph007 · #7 May 26th, 2010, 10:42 AM

I hope you get good news

jensma · #8 May 26th, 2010, 11:07 AM

AWWW I am so sorry. Please keep us updated! We'll be thinking of you.

chrissy323 · #9 May 26th, 2010, 02:15 PM

Good luck Paige! Everything crossed for you!

angel3y35 · #10 May 26th, 2010, 02:37 PM

They didn't do an ultrasound, but there was no need. My beta was only 9 and their pee tests don't pick up until 30 according to the doctor so between Monday morning and today it's dropped at least 21. Hopefully I'll be joining you ladies again soon. Thank you for the thoughts and prayers

KDD · #11 May 26th, 2010, 04:15 PM

I'm so sorry Paige.

Oreobaby · #12 May 26th, 2010, 05:54 PM

I'm so sorry hun!!!

Jennifer-Jacob's Mommy · #13 May 26th, 2010, 06:28 PM

sorry to hear.. I had a miscarriage June 10th last year, ( found out june 5th i was pregnant) and I had the same number come back on my beta "9". devastating "9" .. I know how it feels. take comfort that it is possible to concieve again fast and be back with us... I had my miscarriage June 10th, dr said wait til I have 1 normal period which was July 9th, and I concieved then and found out I was preggo 4 days before my wedding.... and now I have a healthy baby boy. Please take comfort that it IS possiblenad I hope it happens quick for u. t & p for u paige!

MarinaAndCharlie'sMommy · #14 May 26th, 2010, 08:42 PM

I'm so very sorry.

*Mommy2Camden* · #15 May 26th, 2010, 08:47 PM

I'm so sorry.....

hearts.0nfire · #16 May 26th, 2010, 09:15 PM

i'm so sorry to hear you're leaving. My m/c that I had in june was similar to Jennifer but I was told mine was 19 in the ER by a rude doctor. I really hope that you'll be able to concieve again soon with a very healthy bean.