[Jennifer-Jacob's Mommy]

As you guys noticed the last few threads i had on this board had to do with living in a house tha we were orginally told be rent free and they tried to charge rent and then said no it be rent free just do labour work on the home, and well... as u can see my last thread about friendships

well, its gotten worse. my sil is one of the people thati had to cut from my life. she kept emailng emailing and i had enough.. and the last email, i said

Why are you emailing, i told you i dont want no contact or to talk to you. i had enough and that i dont want to talk to either of you guys. and thenwell this being the 6 msg she said, i said **** off emailing.
( ikept blocking her 2 fbook accts and emails she use others emails to contact)

last nite around 1130pm they call,,,,, cause i dont want to be friends or have contact with her we are being kicked out.

then once again, my dh didnt stand up for me. i told him you can be neutral and standup for your wife not go against me! i did not do anything wrong but stand up for myself! i always let people run over me, and i had enough of the childishness. so dh thinks i should say sorry and be friends with her..and i disagree!!!!!

i didnt agree to move to his house ( 45 mins from town) to pay rent.. it would have been cheaper to stay where we were to if you count in the extra expenses that we have to pay where we are... and im not payin rent.. and im definity not saying sorry for something im not in the wrong and all i said was for her to stop contacting me i didnt want anything to do with her...

if she had to screw off contacting me in a few wks this would have blown over and i didnt want to be friends but i would be civil with her at family events.. now how can i after what they are doing?? the availability rate of apartents is less then 1%.

so after stayin up til 3am cryin my eyes out cause dh said i was tearing up the family and crap and it was all my fault,etc ,, at 830 when he was at work i called and i said to him i was packing up stuff and leaving.. im not going to stay where my husband doent believe me ( when i saved all conversations,etc and he read clearly i was not at fault) or defend me. I just cant do it anymore...
He hung up on me..

20 mins later he called back crying .. he is going to tell hisbrother tonight to take the house and shove it ( what they dont realize they need us, the place wont get rented where its located, they will have to start payin a electricity bill and also there house insurance will be invalid cause there is no one living in it ...and we were doing up the place.. i was painting, ( half primed,, not finishing it now ) hubby finished the siding on the house, painted the eves.. and everything) so its not like we werent keeping up the house .. and that he realize it wasnt me that i didnt do anything wrong and he was tryin to be neutral.. but i said to him he can be neutral and defend me.. he said ever since we been living there its nothing but trouble ( it has, his parents live next door so u can imagine ) s i said i was still leaving but ill b back in a few days i need to get away even if its for a few days....

ughhh the last few days have been horrible !!

[CandaceDianne]

Wow, I am really sorry!!

[MommyBeth]

Sorry all this is going on. Huge hugs! Hopefully things will settle down soon.

[KDD]

I'm sorry Jennifer. I know it's been hard living there ever since you moved in. I hope a few days apart will help you and DH to come closer together in the long run.

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[Hoosier Kitty]

Since our last talk on FB, I'm glad you decided to take a breather and hopefully DH will realize he made a mistake. I hope you find a better place to live in for everyone.