Realized Today *Very Depressed/ semi-rant

MommyBeth · #1 September 23rd, 2010, 02:18 PM

That due to a girl at school, I have once again became the social outcast. The supposed friends I thought I had made last semester will walk past me without speaking. When I try to talk to the same supposed friends they cut me off saying they have to go or something like that. Basically anything to get away from me. The kicker in all this is its a Christain college. I am just so tired of the hypocrites there, the teachers really aren't much better. There is one person who will speak to me, but she's pregnant as well, due 10-30. I know that I shouldn't worry about these things, but eating lunch by yourself gets really old really fast. I just wish I knew what I did to make this one girl not like me, and why she has to have so much influence over everyone else. Maybe its me being overly hormonal, but I feel very much like I did in my first semester there. Someone let me know if its me being hormonal/emotional, or what.

Mrs.Paradise · #2 September 23rd, 2010, 04:26 PM

HUGE SUPER DUPER FREAKING BIG FAT GIANT MONSTER HOOKER FANGBANGER

I hope that its just a huge misunderstanding... but I dont know... sorry sweetie...

hearts.0nfire · #3 September 23rd, 2010, 08:48 PM

I'm sorry you're being treated like that. Girls can be really mean. I'm not sure which one you're going to, but it's seriously why I hate the towns around here (which you'll know what I mean).

MommaLee · #4 September 24th, 2010, 07:38 AM

You should ignore them and try and find a group that is more accepting. I don't know about colleges, but the christian high school was way worse than the public school where I grew up.

Jennifer-Jacob's Mommy · #5 September 24th, 2010, 07:50 AM

I know how it feels

It feels awful! Girls can be really mean.. next time I would just call them out on it and say something along the lines like, hey, what did I do that was so bad that all of you are making up excuses and not speaking to me?.... hopefully this clears up and they stop being arrogant about it..sorry hun HUGSSS.. I know how you feel cause I went thru it numerous times.....

MommaLee · #6 September 24th, 2010, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Jacob's Mommy

I know how it feels

It feels awful! Girls can be really mean.. next time I would just call them out on it and say something along the lines like, hey, what did I do that was so bad that all of you are making up excuses and not speaking to me?.... hopefully this clears up and they stop being arrogant about it..sorry hun HUGSSS.. I know how you feel cause I went thru it numerous times.....

That just sounds too nice. Use your enhancement words

KDD · #7 September 24th, 2010, 12:45 PM

Geez, what are they? 13? I know it's tough not to fit in, but do you really want to hang out with them? Honestly I would ignore them completely and just go about my business. When this girl realizes that she can't affect you she'll give up.

Lex&angels · #8 September 24th, 2010, 01:10 PM

Ahhh that's awful. Sounds like High School.
Can you make a new group of friends? That's the beauty of college, for me, is when I realize that it's not working out with some people, there are TONS of others to hang out with and be friends with. In high school you're stuck with the same group of people all the time but in college you have more freedom.