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April 27th, 2011, 12:21 PM
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I have the pictures of the +hpts on my camera and on Easter my BIL saw them and asked my SIL if she knew if I was pregnant or not and she said she didn't know but will find out. Made me mad that he just didn't come and ask me!! Grrrr.....

My SIL and I went out to lunch and she asked me today if I was pregnant so I told her "yes". I can't lie to people I just can't do it and now she knows and I'm afraid she will tell people . My BIL knows and I'm afraid he will tell people. I'm really hoping my MIL doesn't find out because she can't keep her mouth shut to save her life!!

DH is mad at me because they found out and we didn't want them to know!! Now I feel bad because my SIL asked and I didn't lie!!! GRRRR

How do I go about making my DH not mad at me?? Any ideas??

I hoping and praying that my SIL doesn't tell anybody!!
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April 27th, 2011, 12:26 PM
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Hey I've been wondering how you've been! Are you going to start a journal?

We told our families earlier than we originally planned because I wanted to. DH was more hesitant. I told DH that I was overjoyed and thrilled and I wanted to share it with everyone, no matter how long it lasted. He finally said okay. So I hope your DH isn't mad at you. I'd just explain that you're extremely elated and want to share it others who will be just as happy.
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April 27th, 2011, 03:52 PM
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I would just be honest with BIL and SIL. Tell them YOU want to be the one to tell MIL (and others) so they need to keep this secret with you. Might help if you tell them you have some big way you want to tell people so they can be surprised by the news.

I would just explain to DH what happened and that it really isn't your fault that they found out. Other than that I don't really have much to tell you.
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April 27th, 2011, 04:26 PM
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My SIL asked me point blank if I was pg before we wanted to tell people as well. I didn't lie to her either. But I did ask her to keep it to herself until we told others.
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April 27th, 2011, 04:31 PM
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I agree with mlyster. Just tell them its YOUR news and you wanna tell it!! They should not take it upon themselves to even think that it would be ok or cool to do that to you.
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April 27th, 2011, 06:20 PM
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The DH and I told our parents the same night we found out. lol We were so excited because we had been coming up a month sort of TTC 1 year. We also told our bff's that night too by picture mail, lol. Other then that we waited a month or two before we told work/everyone else. In the end its really your decision tho. But its your news and yours alone to share!
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