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I stumbled upon this article accidentally while trying to Google for some information for the "Men who breastfeed" thread. It's very interesting, but potentially offensive. Essentially it's about women who nurse their adult male partners (or, I guess, their adult female partners) as a former of sexual fetishism. It's known as "Erotic Lactation" or an "Adult Nursing Relationship," and I guess was referred to pretty commonly in the ancient Greek/Roman literature.
Warning: The article does contain a few pictures that are sexually graphic, but they're all sketches or paintings.
There are a lot more articles out there than just the one from Wikipedia, but I didn't want to link to them because their pictures are even more graphic! If you'd like you can Google them on your own.
I have a friend with a lactation fetish. Whatever. People have fetishes of all sorts.
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I think balloon fetishes are rather up there with furries.
It is definitely NOT something I would participate in (erotic nursing) - as I don't even really like doing it for my child a lot of the time let alone for an adult that has some fixation. OVERALL though I would think it's pretty harmless as fetishes go - It just doesn't do a thing for me at all & in fact - despite it being harmless it does me feel a little crawly....maybe it's because I have a child nursing & soon to be another. Maybe at a different time I may react differently? I can't say - I just know that before my kids many things didn't make me cry (like stupid commercials,,,lol) - so maybe I wouldn't have always been creeped out? I just know I am now.
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Its on my list of "Meh, whatever"
There are people with pregnancy fetishes, pumping air in yourself, wearing diapers, being pee'd on, farting, teddies /or teddy customes, and so on..
Honestly, as long as it is not illegal or abuse ir anything like that, what people do dont bother me.
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Yeah, but talk about Freudian implications....seems to me like these partners are being infantilized....which means maybe they have some issues with their own mothers that they need to work out....
Yeah, but talk about Freudian implications....seems to me like these partners are being infantilized....which means maybe they have some issues with their own mothers that they need to work out....
Yeah, but talk about Freudian implications....seems to me like these partners are being infantilized....which means maybe they have some issues with their own mothers that they need to work out....
I usually hate Freud (penis envy? Come on!), but honestly the whole erotic lactation thing in some cases may actually be related to the whole issues with the mom type of thing.
Really though, it doesn't bother me. Not for me at all, but humans have all sorts of fetishes - it's not that weird compared to some things out there (Furries come to mind...).
Meh, doesn't really bother me. Kinda TMI but my daughter's father loved my milk, it did something for him, I let him "snack" because he liked it, but I couldn't care less. I think there are much weirder things out there.
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As a BFing mom,I just cant relate my boobs to anything even remotely erotic at the moment! lol
Heck,Ive been keeping my bra on for sex since I had Noelia because I dont want DH touching them or playing with them..not that he wants anything to do with them since Im BFing.My brain tells me that whilst a woman has milk,her boobs are for baby,and I cant shake that feeling right now because I BF lol
I dont know how Id feel about this is I werent BFing..I´ll have to get back to you all once Noe weans
I dont care what couples do in their bedroom..but there are fetishes that I find SICKENING!
Like the ones related to poop,pee or vomit Sorry..Im not so cool about those.
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i am a male who is striving to find someone who is willing and would enjoying erotic lactation as for the comments about it steming from issues from shild hood involving the mother, your probably right my mother was rather neglectful. i spent the majority of my life feeling out of place until one time resting on my now ex wife's chest i just began to suckle and she carressed my cheek. suddenly a feeling of warmth and security washed over me, i felt my mind completly relax and my body soon followed. the feeling i had at that momment for her was absolute love and adoration. plust the taste of breast milk, even though it is differnt from woman to woman, i still find it tasty. no i do not want to walk around the bed room in a diaper or anything of the sort. Although i do have to admit as far as my other fantasies go this is by far the most normal and i think it could be considered helathy by anyone's standard.
Oh go find a website about it for your fetish then instead of trolling and posting on a topic that's a year and a half old.
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