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December 11th, 2011, 09:18 AM
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Would you rather see or be a mom who is a stripper to make ends meet if thats the only source of income you can provide, or would you rather go on Government assistance?

If you are a Christian and you feel it's hypocritical to Strip would you compromise your personal religious beliefs to provide for your family?

What about selling your body in other ways?
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December 11th, 2011, 10:51 AM
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I think anyone that enjoys stripping or other forms of sex work should have that form of that income. No one should have to or feel like they have to be in that field that doesn't want to. They would feel degraded and I'd rather see them on assistance.
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December 11th, 2011, 10:56 AM
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Well, if she can and wants to strip, then more power to her. I also would not blame a woman that did not want to strip and wanted to go on assistance temporarily to try to better her life in a different way. I say that whatever the woman is comfortable with.

As for the Christian issue, there are so many things that people do that could be hypocritical, so to me it is a moot point. I don't believe the way alot of Christians do, but I do believe in God. I say live your life and do what you want as long as you are not hurting anybody else.

I have no issues with strippers, porn or prostitutes. Consenting adults consenting to acts that I would not do is really not my business and it is not my place to judge any of them.
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December 11th, 2011, 10:57 AM
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Since the choice is only stripper or govt assistance I would go on govt assistance while looking for a new job. Besides, I have paid into the system so if I ever need it, then I would hope it would be there for me.

As for the religious belief part, I would go against my religious beliefs to feed my family. Their health and well-being is more important than me sticking to any kind of religious beliefs.
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December 11th, 2011, 02:15 PM
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I would go on Government Assistance instead of being a stripper.
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December 11th, 2011, 02:23 PM
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I would go on government assistance. That said, there is almost nothing I wouldn't do to feed my family, probably including stripping.
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December 11th, 2011, 02:31 PM
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Would you rather see or be a mom who is a stripper to make ends meet if thats the only source of income you can provide, or would you rather go on Government assistance?

I'd strip before I went on government assistance if I was a single mom.

If you are a Christian and you feel it's hypocritical to Strip would you compromise your personal religious beliefs to provide for your family? N/A

What about selling your body in other ways? I'd do escorting but wouldn't do prostitution unless it was legal and regulated. Would do porn without a problem.
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December 11th, 2011, 04:08 PM
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I'd probably make more on govnt cheese than as a stripper.
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December 11th, 2011, 04:52 PM
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I think anyone that enjoys stripping or other forms of sex work should have that form of that income. No one should have to or feel like they have to be in that field that doesn't want to. They would feel degraded and I'd rather see them on assistance.
Pretty much this. If she likes to strip, and is in a place that doesn't degrade her and treats her right... more power to her! I don't have the mindset of "Ooooh stripper, bad job/bad Mom/bad means of income." Hey, if you like it, do it.

If you DONT like to do it... don't. I'd rather someone go on assistance than do something like degrade their body (and I only say it would be degrading their body since they wouldn't be enjoying it) just to make ends meet. It wouldn't be degrading it if that's what they wanted, and liked.
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December 12th, 2011, 10:39 AM
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Well, if she can and wants to strip, then more power to her. I also would not blame a woman that did not want to strip and wanted to go on assistance temporarily to try to better her life in a different way. I say that whatever the woman is comfortable with.

As for the Christian issue, there are so many things that people do that could be hypocritical, so to me it is a moot point. I don't believe the way alot of Christians do, but I do believe in God. I say live your life and do what you want as long as you are not hurting anybody else.

I have no issues with strippers, porn or prostitutes. Consenting adults consenting to acts that I would not do is really not my business and it is not my place to judge any of them.
Ditto to this, and double ditto to the bolded.
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December 12th, 2011, 11:51 AM
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Would you rather see or be a mom who is a stripper to make ends meet if thats the only source of income you can provide, or would you rather go on Government assistance? Whatever the mom feels comfortable with. I would rather either of those two choices before prostitution

If you are a Christian and you feel it's hypocritical to Strip would you compromise your personal religious beliefs to provide for your family? n/a

What about selling your body in other ways? No, once you're a mom you need to be sure you will continue to be there for your kids. Selling your body can place you in a very dangerous situation, not to mention possible stds.
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December 15th, 2011, 02:53 AM
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As a former dancer most people don't realize that it's just a job. it's just like any other job. If you have the means to make $1000 a night or be on welfare I know that I'll take the $1000 a night any day.

I don't see how religion comes into play with any job but for what it's worth I worked with a lot of christians.

Porn pays very well (around $1500 an hour and I've done some myself) and if you are ok with it why wouldn't you make that much money for doing so little? I personally feel that prositution should be legal and regulated. Legal brothel workers are tested weekly, make a fair wage, and are protected from violence.
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