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April 27th, 2007, 07:44 AM
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Here in Spain we had our version of pop stars a few months back,and one of the guys who was on it has just brought out his new single which is called "no quiero enamorarme" (I dont want to fall in love).
Now,whilst he was on the reality show,I liked him,he looked SO inocent and sweet and his songs were always so romantic...so when I heard that his video was going to be on TV yesturday,I sat down with my kids to watch it because my 7 year old daughter really liked him too.
Now,it was 4pm when it came on,and half way through it,I found myself diving for the remote so that my kids couldent see what was going on!!
Its a spanish song (obvuisly) but really,do you think this is a video that should be aired at 4pm??

The video (scroll down to the youtube screen)

Im have nothing against gay and bi-sexuals,but I find this video disgusting!! Especially since its a music video that is VERY popular now..and not particularly because the song is great if you know what I mean!
My daughter asked what the guy behind the singer was doing..am I supposed to explain that he was humping him!!??? She also wondered why 3 people would do that..it was all questions after the video,and I wasnt prepared to awnser ceratn questions..especially about a bisexual threesome!!!
Its a song for gods sake...what is the world coming to when singers have to do things like this to sell their music!!??
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April 27th, 2007, 07:55 AM
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Wow! Honestly, I don't think they'd get away with that on American TV. I thought the videos they show here were bad but that was the most pornographic video I have ever seen!

I find it disgusting that those videos are really put out for the general viewing public and they are not at all appropriate. I have a 12 year old stepdaughter and I would be appalled if that came on while she was watching.

I don't at all have a problem with people who are gay or bi-sexual but I certainly don't want to watch a video that is that graphic. It wouldn't have made a difference if it had been just a man and a woman. I still would have been inappropriate.


I think I have to go wash my eyeballs now! I feel dirty!
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April 27th, 2007, 08:02 AM
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do i need to say more than that? that's soft core porn IMO! and i don't tihk it should every be on when anyone under 18 can watch it. im really surprised and appalled at that. that wasn't just a little bit, that was a full-blown mini movie fo what was going on. that would be HUGELY debated and torn apafrt here in the states.

and im so sorry about having watched that with your kids i know you were really NOT expecting that and im so sorry that you're now having to explain this to your little girl. that is so sad, i feel for you
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I don't at all have a problem with people who are gay or bi-sexual but I certainly don't want to watch a video that is that graphic. It wouldn't have made a difference if it had been just a man and a woman. I still would have been inappropriate.[/b]
This is exactly how I feel. It totally bordered on porn.
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April 27th, 2007, 08:03 AM
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I don't at all have a problem with people who are gay or bi-sexual but I certainly don't want to watch a video that is that graphic. It wouldn't have made a difference if it had been just a man and a woman. I still would have been inappropriate.[/b]
i just wanted to add that i agree, i found it offensive and obscene when it was just the man and woman at first!

it isn't at all WHO was involved, it's the content!
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April 27th, 2007, 08:04 AM
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Wow! Honestly, I don't think they'd get away with that on American TV. I thought the videos they show here were bad but that was the most pornographic video I have ever seen!

I find it disgusting that those videos are really put out for the general viewing public and they are not at all appropriate. I have a 12 year old stepdaughter and I would be appalled if that came on while she was watching.

I don't at all have a problem with people who are gay or bi-sexual but I certainly don't want to watch a video that is that graphic. It wouldn't have made a difference if it had been just a man and a woman. I still would have been inappropriate.


I think I have to go wash my eyeballs now! I feel dirty![/b]
Thats what I thought! I mean,when the time came for me to explain sex to my kids,it took me days to think of the perfect way to tell them about everything without making it seem like something dirty..and then they see this???
Its been on the TV 4 times since yesturday! People are talking about it on every channel! I couldent believe it when I saw it,and now my kids are asking all sorts of questions
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April 27th, 2007, 08:07 AM
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Its been on the TV 4 times since yesturday! People are talking about it on every channel![/b]
are they talking like it's a bad thing or are they advertising that it's now on?
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April 27th, 2007, 08:11 AM
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Yes, that was soft core porn and would have NEVER shown here in the states or Canada on regular tv. I know where you live its a bit more liberal, but COME ON! That is rediculous to be shown as mid afternoon video watching. I have NO idea how you would explain that to a young person. I'm not speaking of the bisexual relationship either, but just the WHOLE thing in general. I'm compleltly SHOCKED! Im sorry you had to see that with your kids.
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MY EYES! That is PORN! Between the boob-feeling and hands in the pants and the gyrating, it is PORN! Yikes! I wasn't expecting that at all. I think I need a shower now!
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April 27th, 2007, 08:17 AM
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Its been on the TV 4 times since yesturday! People are talking about it on every channel![/b]
are they talking like it's a bad thing or are they advertising that it's now on?
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You´re not going to beleive this,but people are APPLAUDING this guy for being so brave and bold!!! He is being cheered on and people want a second video!!
We are being told that there is nothing wrong with gay or bisexual sex,and I agree..but I dont want it to be rammed down my kids throats,and theres no need to be so graphic.
I can tell my kids about gay and bisexual relationships and help them understand it and accept it..I certainly dont need this video,and neither does anyone in my opnion,so I dont know why the people on Spanish TV feel its necesary.
They were asking people in the street what they thought of the video,and one woman said it was disgusting..they went stright for her throat!
I think its disgusting..and its one thing to be proud of being gay or bisexual,and another to just provoke people and try to get atention like this.
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April 27th, 2007, 08:25 AM
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I'm going to admit that I didn't click the link to watch the video. I'm somewhat of a prude when it comes to things like that - call me crazy, but I get uncomfortable watching other people being intimate on television.

But, yeah, for a mainstream artist who is popular with younger people, I think that what you describe is inappropriate for the time frame. MTV wouldn't show something like that unless it was 2 in the morning, and depending on the explicitness of the video it might not make it on at all.[/b]

I did watch this video and I don't think MTV would even show it at 2 am. It was THAT graphic! I thought the videos they show on MTV were bad enough but this was even worse.
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I cant believe this is on public television where you live. I won't let my 11 year old DSD watch videos on MTV as it is......and MTV would NEVER air this! Wow. Call me a prude, but that is the kind of thing you pay to see, definitely not something I would want children watching.



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April 27th, 2007, 09:40 AM
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haha!

Wow, I'm lost for words. No way this should be on tv at 4 pm. Actually, it shouldn't be on tv at all.

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April 27th, 2007, 10:01 AM
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Whoa! That was bordering on pornographic... definetely not 4 pm material!
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April 27th, 2007, 10:19 AM
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I'm thinking this would be belong on "skinamax" late at night. geez.... I was really surprised at how far they were going in the video. I'm guessing if I lived in Spain I'd have to have a T.V. that was just hooked up for movies.
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April 27th, 2007, 10:34 AM
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I didn't click the link because I don't want to be fired-but I was under the impression that in Spain and other European countries public TV is much more graphic and uncensored. So is this really that out of the ordinary? Or is it because it is two men?
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I didn't click the link because I don't want to be fired-but I was under the impression that in Spain and other European countries public TV is much more graphic and uncensored. So is this really that out of the ordinary? Or is it because it is two men?[/b]
Its not just 2 men, its a threesome of 2 men and a woman, and there is plenty of nudity, and lots of sexuality. Not just implied, but a LOT!
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April 27th, 2007, 10:56 AM
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I didn't click the link because I don't want to be fired-but I was under the impression that in Spain and other European countries public TV is much more graphic and uncensored. So is this really that out of the ordinary? Or is it because it is two men?[/b]
Its not just 2 men, its a threesome of 2 men and a woman, and there is plenty of nudity, and lots of sexuality. Not just implied, but a LOT!
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To my knowledge they have sex and nudity on TV all the time over there...Have you ever seen "Shock Video" on HBO?
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April 27th, 2007, 11:17 AM
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I didn't click the link because I don't want to be fired-but I was under the impression that in Spain and other European countries public TV is much more graphic and uncensored. So is this really that out of the ordinary? Or is it because it is two men?[/b]
Its not just 2 men, its a threesome of 2 men and a woman, and there is plenty of nudity, and lots of sexuality. Not just implied, but a LOT!
[/b]
To my knowledge they have sex and nudity on TV all the time over there...Have you ever seen "Shock Video" on HBO?
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You are right,here in Spain nothing is censored because people dont beleive in it.But usually,they keep all the x-rated stuff until after 10pm.I mean,we have porn channels on our regular TV and then on Cable we have about 10 (all free:2 are gay channels),so yes,this is a very liberal country.
We have sexual scenes in our movies and some programmes have sexual content throughout the day,but until now I have been able to keep my kids from seeing it kwim? This just caught me off guard.
As I said,I have nothing against it..to each their own,but I think this music video just sends the wrong message kwim? Its not about freedom or being accepted,its about lust and sex,and I think its unacceptable.
Im a grown woman and I didnt like it or think it was fantastic at all..I nearly broke my neck trying to get it off the TV
I do think that this country has taken the whole liberal thing a little too far..I mean,sure,we are in the year 2007,but that doesnt mean this sort of thing should be seen by kids or applauded.Everyone is so over-sexed here!!
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