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  #1  
April 30th, 2007, 06:51 PM
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Like a coma, paralysis, and so on...

Would you stay with him and never pursue a new relationship if it dragged on for a long time?

What about 10 years down the road, he still can't communicate with you?

What if he were a completely different person than the one you fell in love with as a result?
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April 30th, 2007, 07:04 PM
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"In sickness & in health" is what I vowed to my husband.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:07 PM
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I agree with Erica.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:09 PM
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I'd stay with him, no matter what.

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April 30th, 2007, 07:14 PM
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Would not think twice about it
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April 30th, 2007, 07:15 PM
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My vows were til death do us part. I can't imagine giving him up when he probably needed me most.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:16 PM
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agree with all the ladies
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April 30th, 2007, 07:18 PM
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See I totally agree with all of you ladies..

But so many people do leave when the situation presents--say if the husband is basically a vegetable for years and years with no hope of recovery. I doubt any of them thought they would leave their spouse if something like that happened.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:22 PM
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I'd stick with him. It would be hard, but life's not easy!

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I can't imagine leaving my DH if something like that happened. It just wouldn't be right. And if something happened to me, I should hope he would feel the same.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:25 PM
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I just read a story in Good Housekeeping about a guy who was injured in Iraq(military) just 10 days before he was to return home to his girlfriend. He was in a coma for 2 months, and eventually the girlfriend said she couldn't continue with the relationship. He said she is still a big part of his support system.. But how sad..
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April 30th, 2007, 07:38 PM
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I'd stay. He would still be my husband even in a coma. In sickness and in health till death do us part...
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April 30th, 2007, 08:30 PM
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I'd stay, I would just pour myself into taking care of him and trying to make life as normal as possible for our kids.
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April 30th, 2007, 08:39 PM
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Of course I'd stay. He'd need me now more than ever.
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April 30th, 2007, 09:10 PM
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Edited to ask...Are you feeling ok tonight? I prefer the sex thread mood over the current trend you've got going on![/b]
LOL---my 'incontinence' thread prompted me to think about 'what people would do if something bad happened to their dh' which led to 'would you remarry'.. Kind of morbid I know.. I couldn't remember those debates being done here before, so I thought they were interesting topics..

However--I will be happy to bring up some sex topics if you'd like me to lighten the mood!
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April 30th, 2007, 09:13 PM
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April 30th, 2007, 09:22 PM
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I would be there with him through it all. There's no way I could leave the hubby if something bad happened to him. I agree with the "In sickness and in health til death do us part" and would compleatly 100% honor those vows!
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May 1st, 2007, 01:36 AM
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I'd stay with him. I couldn't just up and leave him.
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