Log In Sign Up

Dont you hate stereotypes?


Forum: Heated Debates

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Heated Debates LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
May 11th, 2007, 09:21 PM
mommyKathyX3
Guest
Posts: n/a
So WHAT MUST YOU BE????

I'M SKINNY, so I MUST be bulimic.

I'm EMO, so I MUST cut my wrists.

I'm AFRICAN AMERICAN so I MUST carry a gun.

I'm BLONDE, so I MUST be a ditz

I'm JAMAICAN so I MUST smoke weed.

I'm HAITIAN so I MUST eat cat.

I'm ASIAN, so I MUST be sexy.

I'm JEWISH, so I MUST be greedy.

I'm GAY, so I MUST have AIDS.

I'm a LESBIAN, so I MUST have a sex-tape.

I'm ARAB, so I MUST be a terrorist.

I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a bit**.

I'm RELIGIOUS, so I MUST shove my beliefs down your throat.

I'm ATHEIST so i MUST hate the world.

I DON'T HAVE A RELIGION, so I MUST be "evil" and not have any morals.

I'm REPUBLICAN, so I MUST not care about poor people.

I'm DEMOCRAT, so I MUST not believe in being responsible.

I am LIBERAL, so I MUST be gay.

I'm SOUTHERN, so I MUST be white trash.

I TAKE (or used to take) ANTI-DEPRESSANTS, so I MUST be crazy.

I'm a GUY, so I MUST only want to get into your pants.

I'm IRISH, so I MUST have a bad drinking problem.

I'm INDIAN, so I MUST own a convenient store.

I'm NATIVE AMERICAN, so I MUST dance around a fire screaming like a savage.

I'm a CHEERLEADER, so I MUST be a who**...

I'm a DANCER, So i must be stupid, stuck up, and a who**

I wear SKIRTS a lot, so I MUST be a ****.

I'm a PUNK, so I MUST do drugs.

I'm YOUNG, so I MUST be naive.

I'm RICH, so I MUST be a conceited snob.

I WEAR BLACK, so I MUST be a goth or emo.

I'm a WHITE GIRL, so I MUST be a nagging, steal-your-money kind of girlfriend.

I'm CUBAN, so I MUST spend my spare time rolling cigars.

I'm MEXICAN, so I MUST have hopped the border.

I'm NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy.

I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.

I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible ****.

I'm POLISH, so I MUST wear my socks with my sandals

I'm ITALIAN, so I must have a big PENIS.

I'm EGYPTIAN, so I must be a TERRORIST!!

I'm PRETTY, so I MUST not be a virgin.

I HAVE STRAIGHT A'S, so I MUST have no social life.

I DYE MY HAIR CRAZY COLORS, so I MUST be looking for attention.

I DRESS IN UNUSUAL WAYS so I MUST be looking for attention.

I'm INTO THEATER & ART, so I MUST be a homosexual.

I'm a VEGETARIAN, so I MUST be a crazy political activist.

I HAVE A BUNCH OF GUY FRIENDS, so I MUST be **cking them all.

I HAVE A BUNCH OF GIRLS WHO ARE FRIENDS, so I MUST be gay.

I have BOOBS, so I MUST be a ho.

I'm COLOMBIAN, so I MUST be a drug dealer.

I WEAR WHAT I WANT, so I MUST be a poser.

I'm RUSSIAN, so I MUST be cool and thats how Russians roll.

I'm GERMAN, so I MUST be a Nazi.

I hang out with GAYS, so i must be GAY TOO

I'm BRAZILIAN, so I MUST have a BIG BUTT.

I'm PUERTO RICAN, so I MUST look good and be conceited

I'm SALVADORIAN, so I MUST be in MS 13

I'm POLISH, so I MUST be greedy

I'm HAWAIIAN so I MUST be lazy

I'm PERUVIAN, so I MUST like llamas

Im a STONER so i MUST be going in the wrong direction

Im a VIRGIN so i MUST be prude

Im STRAIGHT EDGE so i must be violent.

I'm a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly.. or crazy.

I'm BLACK so I MUST love fried chicken and kool-aid.

I'm BI so I MUST think every girl i see is hot.

I'm a GIRL who actually EATS LUNCH, so i MUST be fat.

I'm SINGLE so I MUST be ugly.

I'm ASIAN so i must be a NERD that does HOMEWORK 24/7(not!)

I'm CHRISTIAN so I MUST hate homosexuals.

I'm MIXED so i must be **cked up.

I'm MUSLIM so i MUST be sexy.

I'm in ORCHESTRA/BAND, so i MUST be a dork.

I'm BLACK so I MUST believe JESUS WUZ A BROTHA

I'm MORMON so I MUST be perfect

I'm WHITE and have black friends so I MUST think I'm black

I'm GOTH so I MUST worship the devil.


edited cause I didnt realize how many swear words there were! lol
Reply With Quote
  #3  
May 11th, 2007, 09:53 PM
mommyKathyX3
Guest
Posts: n/a
I'm RELIGIOUS, so I MUST shove my beliefs down your throat.

I'm REPUBLICAN, so I MUST not care about poor people.

I TAKE (or used to take) ANTI-DEPRESSANTS, so I MUST be crazy.

I wear SKIRTS a lot, so I MUST be a ****.

I WEAR BLACK, so I MUST be a goth or emo.

I'm a WHITE GIRL, so I MUST be a nagging, steal-your-money kind of girlfriend.

I'm NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy.

I HAVE STRAIGHT A'S, so I MUST have no social life.

I'm INTO THEATER & ART, so I MUST be a homosexual.

I have BOOBS, so I MUST be a ho.

Im a VIRGIN so i MUST be prude (obviously not anymore, but this used to pertain to me!)

Im STRAIGHT EDGE so i must be violent.

I'm a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly.. or crazy.

I'm a GIRL who actually EATS LUNCH, so i MUST be fat.

I'm CHRISTIAN so I MUST hate homosexuals.

I'm WHITE and have black friends so I MUST think I'm black

These are all what I MUST BE! I've gotten so many of those stereotypes given to me its scary!!!
Reply With Quote
  #4  
May 11th, 2007, 09:58 PM
Cereal Killer's Avatar I'm climbin' in yo window
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: next to Chuck Norris
Posts: 7,373
Quote:
I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.[/b]
this one, I kind of agree with.
__________________
Wife, Mother of 4, Homeschooling, and wine drinking.


Reply With Quote
  #6  
May 11th, 2007, 10:18 PM
Story's Avatar French Canadian
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Montréal
Posts: 2,693
I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a bit**. (I do speak my mind, but I have respect for others! )

I'm ATHEIST so i MUST hate the world. (Oh Yeah! F*CK YOU ALL! )

I DON'T HAVE A RELIGION, so I MUST be "evil" and not have any morals. (Of course I don't!! I just killed my neighbor today and f*cked her girlfriend)

I'm NATIVE AMERICAN, so I MUST dance around a fire screaming like a savage. (That sounds fun though! )

I'm a PUNK, so I MUST do drugs. (I bet you've never seen someone more AGAINST drugs than me!! )

I WEAR BLACK, so I MUST be a goth or emo. (Sure! )

I'm NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy. (Well duh! No wonder why I have kids!)

I DYE MY HAIR CRAZY COLORS, so I MUST be looking for attention. (Hey everybody! Look here!! )

I DRESS IN UNUSUAL WAYS so I MUST be looking for attention. (I REALLY need attention!)

I'm a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly.. or crazy. (ugly, crazy and overweight... that's me!! )

I'm BI so I MUST think every girl i see is hot. (Of course! I wanna f*ck every girls in town!)

pretty funny!!
__________________

Mom to Maèva (11), Nadjat (9) and Klaus (5)




Reply With Quote
  #8  
May 11th, 2007, 11:05 PM
Story's Avatar French Canadian
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Montréal
Posts: 2,693
Quote:
Elyia'nha - Man, you got a case of 'potty mouth' that's worse than MINE! You really must lack all morals! Just kidding! [/b]
I know
Shame on me!
__________________

Mom to Maèva (11), Nadjat (9) and Klaus (5)




Reply With Quote
  #9  
May 12th, 2007, 02:01 AM
irishxrose
Guest
Posts: n/a
I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible ****.

This one gets me the most, for obvious reasons. To add to this one - "I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I must be an irresponsible ****, who doesn't know who is the father of my baby, who is on welfare, who dropped out of high school and is a good for nothing piece of crap." I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE this stereotype!

Other ones -

I'm BI so I MUST think every girl i see is hot.

I'm a GIRL who actually EATS LUNCH, so i MUST be fat.

I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a bit**.

I am LIBERAL, so I MUST be gay.

I TAKE (or used to take) ANTI-DEPRESSANTS, so I MUST be crazy.

I'm IRISH, so I MUST have a bad drinking problem.

I wear SKIRTS a lot, so I MUST be a ****.

I'm a PUNK, so I MUST do drugs.

I'm YOUNG, so I MUST be naive.

I'm NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy.

I DYE MY HAIR CRAZY COLORS, so I MUST be looking for attention.

I DRESS IN UNUSUAL WAYS so I MUST be looking for attention.

I'm a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly.. or crazy.

I have BOOBS, so I MUST be a ho.

Grrrrr. I HATE stereotypes. I really do.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
May 12th, 2007, 05:09 AM
Lisadear's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Trinidad
Posts: 20,622
Send a message via MSN to Lisadear Send a message via Yahoo to Lisadear
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont have anything to add except that this thread just has me laughing soooooooo much!

xxx Lisa xxx
__________________
xxx Lisa xxx<div align="center">

</div>
Reply With Quote
  #11  
May 12th, 2007, 06:30 AM
chloe82
Guest
Posts: n/a
I'M SKINNY, so I MUST be bulimic.

I'm JEWISH, so I MUST be greedy.

I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a bit**.

I'm RELIGIOUS, so I MUST shove my beliefs down your throat.

I'm YOUNG, so I MUST be naive.

I'm a WHITE GIRL, so I MUST be a nagging, steal-your-money kind of girlfriend.

I'm NOT A VIRGIN, so I MUST be easy.

I HAVE STRAIGHT A'S, so I MUST have no social life.

I'm a GIRL who actually EATS LUNCH, so i MUST be fat.

I'm CHRISTIAN so I MUST hate homosexuals.


Reply With Quote
  #12  
May 12th, 2007, 06:44 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 5,429
Quote:
Quote:
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE
<div class='quotemain'>I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.[/b]
this one, I kind of agree with.
[/b][/quote]
Yea, I was gonna say that one too. The ONLY time I don't agree with it is if the woman DID NOT know that the man was married. Otherwise, yea...I'd consider her to be a homewrecking ho.
[/b][/quote]
You can't help who you fall in love with..

Quote:
I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible ****.[/b]
Ohhhh I hate this one too. I got pregnant at 19, I was married(barely), but still married and in college---but people don't care to know that, they just skip to the judging.
Reply With Quote
  #14  
May 12th, 2007, 06:56 AM
Cereal Killer's Avatar I'm climbin' in yo window
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: next to Chuck Norris
Posts: 7,373
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE
<div class='quotemain'>I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.[/b]
this one, I kind of agree with.
[/b]
Yea, I was gonna say that one too. The ONLY time I don't agree with it is if the woman DID NOT know that the man was married. Otherwise, yea...I'd consider her to be a homewrecking ho.
[/b][/quote]
You can't help who you fall in love with..
[/b][/quote]
Sorry, I beg to differ. You can help falling in love with a married man. I have no compassion for someone who gets involved with a married man and gets in the middle of his marital commitment. I think a woman who gets involved with a married man is one of the lowest forms of life. There is no way I would have ever pursued a relationship with a man that had a girlfriend, nevermind a wife.
__________________
Wife, Mother of 4, Homeschooling, and wine drinking.


Reply With Quote
  #15  
May 12th, 2007, 06:56 AM
Lisadear's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Trinidad
Posts: 20,622
Send a message via MSN to Lisadear Send a message via Yahoo to Lisadear
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(StaceyC @ May 11 2007, 10:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
<div class='quotemain'><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE
<div class='quotemain'>I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.[/b]
this one, I kind of agree with.
[/b][/quote]
Yea, I was gonna say that one too. The ONLY time I don't agree with it is if the woman DID NOT know that the man was married. Otherwise, yea...I'd consider her to be a homewrecking ho.
[/b][/quote]
You can't help who you fall in love with..

Quote:
I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible ****.[/b]
Ohhhh I hate this one too. I got pregnant at 19, I was married(barely), but still married and in college---but people don't care to know that, they just skip to the judging.
[/b][/quote]
To the bolded: Oh yes you can! As soon as they see that he is married (again, this pertains to only if they KNEW beforehand) then yep, they should have cut all communication OFF. If not, and they still pursue the married man, and subsequently 'fall in love', well....sorry, but that IS a homewreckin' ho.

I doubt that one can truly fall in love in a matter of a few days. Unless he's a really good liar, you (in general) could probably tell that he was married (some just come right out with it, talking about how they are 'separated' or 'getting a divorce', etc.). So again, if the girl REALLY didn't know, and fell in love with him, then she's not a homewreckin ho. BUT IF SHE DID, yep....no questions about it.

And more than likely, if she did love him (and knew about his marital status) she is going to pursue that. Only in rare cases do you hear about a woman falling in love with a married man and NEVER pursuing him. So, IMO, that 'stereotype' is very, very valid. It has more than just a seed of truth to it.
[/b][/quote]
at the risk of being flamed I'm going to have to disagree

my ex bf and I went out for four years ............... didnt start out as a romance sort of thing .......... we were JUST FRIENDS .... it was only after quite a while that we realised we had fallen for each other and I mean REALLY fallen ... wasn't planned or anything and there was absolutely no intention of any sort of relationship except than friendship.

Sometimes you really can't help who you fall in love with ... which in some situations is downright heartbreaking on both parties.

xxx Lisa xxx
__________________
xxx Lisa xxx<div align="center">

</div>
Reply With Quote
  #16  
May 12th, 2007, 07:00 AM
donomama
Guest
Posts: n/a
But the MINUTE a woman has feelings for a married man, she should decide to NEVER see him again. I don't care how painful that is - it is a lot less painful than it would be to his wife when she finds out he's having an affair!
Reply With Quote
  #17  
May 12th, 2007, 07:03 AM
Lisadear's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Trinidad
Posts: 20,622
Send a message via MSN to Lisadear Send a message via Yahoo to Lisadear
Quote:
But the MINUTE a woman has feelings for a married man, she should decide to NEVER see him again. I don't care how painful that is - it is a lot less painful than it would be to his wife when she finds out he's having an affair![/b]
and to that I also agree ... I would admit to being guilty of not being strong enough to do that ... it was one lesson I learnt the HARD way

xxx Lisa xxx
__________________
xxx Lisa xxx<div align="center">

</div>
Reply With Quote
  #18  
May 12th, 2007, 07:05 AM
Acadia's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Louisiana
Posts: 8,377
So ...

I'm a b*tchy, world-hating, evil, crazy, binge-drinking, drug-using, naive, gold-digging, easy, lesbian, violent, dorky piece of white trash who thinks she's black and is sleeping with all her guy friends.

So I'm a lesbian and I sleep with all my friends!? Wow. I guess my best friend and I must be having orgies with them or something, and then killing them afterward. You know, since we're crazy and totally without morals. Man, we sure go through friends pretty quick! Since they end up dead and all.
__________________
<div align="center">




</div>
Reply With Quote
  #19  
May 12th, 2007, 07:12 AM
quietsong's Avatar Just Another Slacker Mom
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Missouri
Posts: 42,367
Send a message via MSN to quietsong
Quote:
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE
Quote:
I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking who**.[/b]
this one, I kind of agree with.
[/b][/quote]

I don't. I actually did this as well... We were friends - good ones - but nothing more than that to start. Then, all of a sudden, I sat back one day and realized I actually had developed some pretty deep feelings for him. The next time I saw him, I was completely honest with him about what had happened and explained that I was sorry but I couldn't talk to him again because that wasn't right or fair to anyone involved. A few months later, he approached me and actually wanted to meet up, said things weren't going so well with his wife (but he was not separated, didn't have a divorce in the works, nothing like that) ... I refused.

IMO, it isn't the falling in love that you can judge it on, it's how a woman reacts once the falling happens. If they break contact and exit the situation, they aren't a home-wrecking who**, just someone who made a mistake.
__________________



Visit My Blog, and come join me at the JM Blogs!
Thank you Jaidynsmum for the siggy!
Reply With Quote
  #20  
May 12th, 2007, 07:12 AM
Lisadear's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Trinidad
Posts: 20,622
Send a message via MSN to Lisadear Send a message via Yahoo to Lisadear
Quote:
So ...

I'm a b*tchy, world-hating, evil, crazy, binge-drinking, drug-using, naive, gold-digging, easy, lesbian, violent, dorky piece of white trash who thinks she's black and is sleeping with all her guy friends.

So I'm a lesbian and I sleep with all my friends!? Wow. I guess my best friend and I must be having orgies with them or something, and then killing them afterward. You know, since we're crazy and totally without morals. Man, we sure go through friends pretty quick! Since they end up dead and all. [/b]
LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gotta love ya!

xxx Lisa xxx
__________________
xxx Lisa xxx<div align="center">

</div>
Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:53 AM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0