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Of gender dissapointment. I fee horrid because I want a healthy baby no matter what, I just REALLY want it to be a healthy baby girl. I have a feeling is it a girl, I had a dream, DH had a dream. But I dont want to admit it to ppl because I feel Ill jinx it. When I had my proof of pregnancy done they offered these little homemade booties and hats, I SOOOO wanted the little pink ones, but I chose the yellow cause I thought if I DID get the pink ones it would for sure be a boy. UGH Im soo silly. Anybody else go through this?
Dont worry im the same way. I dont want to say it out loud bc im so scared I'll jinx it. I even feel silly thinking that Im gonna have the gender I want. Either way of course a healthy baby is so important and the only thing I care about....but to be so lucky to get a little boy would be the icing on the cake. Im sure you feel the same way re: a little girl. I pray you get your pink bundle.
I'm feeling exactly the same way right now. I really think/hope this is a boy and I'm scared that I'm setting myself up to be disappointed. Which would make me feel horrible if I do feel that way with a girl. Of course I just want a healthy baby, but I definitely know how your feeling.
We can be silently thinking this in our DDC together I feel that way a lot, and I then I feel so guilty because we really, really just want a healthy baby. It took so much to get pregnant and stay pregnant (I am hoping that is going to be the case), that I can't help but feel like a heel to admit I desperately want a girl.
I too think I am having a girl...BUT everything points to boy and I am terrified I am going to have a disappointed feeling when they tell me it is a boy. I wonder if my feelings are just hope, you know? I don't think it means anything negative about us. We just both want a daugher. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I would feel the same way if Liam had been a girl. I would desperately want a boy.