[justamom11]

okay, ill admit unfortunately (for me) my DH doesnt have a constantly high NEED for sex. plus he works alot thus is tired a lot. ok ive embarrassed myself. however, he will act accordingly when i throw it out there. we are TTC a boy this sept and ive heard to regulate sex like 2x a week with a 4-5day cut off then BD on O day. well how long should we be doing it 2wice a week? (starting a month before TTC day or earlier, later?)

thx!

[heartsleeve71]

Are you temping and monitoring when you O? If you are then all you need to do is BD as close to O as possible so day before and day of O would be ideal???? Anyone else have a suggestion.

[shell1981]

Abstaining for longer than 5-7 days makes it more likely that your dhs boy sperm die off. Spo i would dtd 2x a week maybe for 2 weeks leading up to your ttc, but that fertile week i would use protection until the day before or O day to make sure none of the girl sperm are still around!

[justamom11]

i just starting temping this month and have been monitoring my cm. i had a 36 day cycle!!! geez. which makes it hard to do some of the drinks and supplements that only allow you to ingest from AF to O. last month it was 3 weeks from AF to O.

ill make him bd a lot more the month we ttc.
thx!