My husband and I are TTC....more specifically TTC a girl. He had his vasectomy reversed in Jan. this year and in May we had a sperm analysis and they said that sperm were present, but not swimming yet.

Doc said that is normal....give it another 3 months and go back again. We have 4 boys..18,14,12,10....the 18yr old is mine...and the other 3 his from his first marriage. Now, we would like one together...preferably a girl...but as long as it's healthy we don't care. I have read soooo much stuff. So, any advice..words of wisdom..anything would be great. Oh...the husband is 42..I'm 37..and he is type 2 diabetic...things are certainly not in our favor are they??