who knows your swaying?

cocosmumNco · #1 November 11th, 2011, 04:51 PM

who have you told you are swaying?

i've told my husbands family but i kind of regret it cause i feel if we fail they will think we are silly for trying to sway pink.

Amari · #2 November 12th, 2011, 02:09 PM

Ahh, I'm sorry you regret it. How did they react?

I told dh, but he's not participating at all, just indulging my craziness! I told a friend of mine and I think that is it! I don't want people's opinions so I'm just keeping it to myself and you luck ladies who get to listen to me! Thank you for it!!

mommy2lilmen · #3 November 13th, 2011, 12:16 PM

Dh and friend that I met online on InGender, thats it and YOU GIRLS hehe

Im much like Amari, I dont want to hear peoples opinions..I already been lectured that I have *enough* kids. Like really? I know that I wont have time when Im 50 to retire, I may never go on vacation, yada yada..I dont care about all of that. I care about my family LOL I will tell them I am pregnant when I get confirmation of a pregnancy.

They dont need to know of my knowledge of swaying. DH was hard enough to explain it to HAHA

Amari · #4 November 14th, 2011, 05:35 AM

I agree, Michelle! Love that we have this outlet!

mindyjean · #5 November 15th, 2011, 11:22 AM

I haven't told a soul that we will be swaying with our next baby. DH is totally on board with me, and that's all that matters. I honestly don't want other people to think I would be disappointed with a 3rd boy---that is my own stuff to deal with, and I know that if that IS the outcome, I will still love him with all my heart. So, no one knows or will EVER know!

Mystic_Mommy · #6 November 16th, 2011, 06:49 PM

My mother knows and is super excited! My best friend is in the loop and of course my husband, but that's it.

cocosmumNco · #7 November 17th, 2011, 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amari

Ahh, I'm sorry you regret it. How did they react?

I told dh, but he's not participating at all, just indulging my craziness! I told a friend of mine and I think that is it! I don't want people's opinions so I'm just keeping it to myself and you luck ladies who get to listen to me! Thank you for it!!

very much like they thought i was nuts and you can't change anything they believe sperm picks gender and don't think you can change that.

Belita · #8 November 17th, 2011, 04:33 PM

I don't plan on telling anyone. I'm debating whether or not I want to tell DH. I know he'll be fine with it, but I think I'm starting to overwhelm him with everything I'm learning about TTC and I think I should pace it a little better.