So this is what I did:
CD12 - DTD
CD13 - DTD
CD14 - DTD
CD17 - Generally ovulate on this day, and all signs indicated I did.
CD18 - Woke up in a sea of EWCM, so thought I may have ovulated a day late, but nothing for rest of day. Was annoyed as I thought we didn't time things well, and DH wouldn't DTD again as we are trying to sway for a girl.
Tested this morning at 12DPO and...
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I'M PREGNANT!! We DTD at least 3 days, possibly even 4 days prior to ovulation... and it seems to have done the trick!!
Obviously over the moon! But have a few hoops to jump through before we know if bubs is okay (I have a genetic disorder that means I have a 50% chance of losing baby). So 'correct-chromosomes-in-the-correct-place' vibes please!! And send all your PINK dust my way!!!