boy number 4

sharlers · #1 September 7th, 2012, 01:28 PM

found out im having boy number 4 so my dream of having a princess is over now

xx

ashj_1218 · #2 September 8th, 2012, 07:46 AM

I am sorry

I hope you spend the next few weeks adapting and getting excited for you little man. Hugs.

sharlers · #3 September 8th, 2012, 08:18 AM

thankyou hun xx

3Sapphires · #4 September 14th, 2012, 09:31 AM

*hugs*

we just had our 3rd boys and while if we ttc again it won't be for a while, I am trying to decide if I am ok with 4 boys, or if we should just be happy.

kikismith · #5 September 14th, 2012, 04:49 PM

HUGS!!! I swear Im starting to believe that certain people make certain genders. Im most likely having my 3rd daughter. All this swaying, timing, diet, etc is all bologna!! Congratulations on your baby, he will be blessed with 3 brothers

sharlers · #6 September 15th, 2012, 01:15 AM

thanks girls im starting to get my head around it and i know he ll be very loved the only thing im struggling with is the the thought of growing older and not having the mother/daughter relationship me and my mam share xx

kikismith · #7 September 16th, 2012, 02:33 PM

Well, maybe your boys will have amazing wives that you will treat like a daughter, and then they'll give you plenty of grand daughters to spoil. I always tell myself, "well one of my daughter's will have a son one day" and then I'll be able to spoil him rotten!

sharlers · #8 September 17th, 2012, 01:49 PM

i hope so i would have another baby myself but only if i was garanteed to have a girl lol never gonna happen too much moneyxx

Athme · #9 September 17th, 2012, 05:34 PM

If you do consider trying again, my cousin had 5 boys and then finally had a girl!

sharlers · #10 September 18th, 2012, 01:31 PM

thanks athme dont think hubby would even consider it he didnt really want to try for this one but because he knew i wanted a little girl badly but i know he wont because we have 4 and he has 3 other children from previous relationship xx

knightsgirl · #11 September 21st, 2012, 12:52 PM

Glad you're starting to adapt to boy #4. I know that after two boys, I'm hoping for a girl. I just have this feeling I was meant to have boys, even tho, like you, I want that mother/daughter relationship that I've had with my mom and grandma.

shell1981 · #12 September 23rd, 2012, 03:19 AM

Aww big hugs! When the tech told me Alex was a boy, i felt so sad, i knew i shouldnt be and felt really selfish b/c my friend was having IVF and had had lots of failed attempts. I tried to hold the tears in and smile through my US. When i got home i told dh i wasnt feeling well and was going for a lie down and sobbed for over an hour! Alex is now the sweetest little boy and i feel guilty now when i look at him about how sad i felt. So i completely understand how you are feeling. Alex was suposed to be the last and probably will be. I do still feel really sad when i think that i wont have a daughter. Hopefully i ll have lots of grand daughters to make up for it!! And you will too xx

sharlers · #13 September 23rd, 2012, 07:23 AM

thanks girls shell i have sobbed my heart out and i feel so horrible for doing it but i cant help it i know when hes here i ll be fine i hope one day that i come into some money so i can giv pgd a go but i doubt that xx

Banned-jscott0244 · #14 September 25th, 2012, 12:49 PM

So sorry

kikismith · #15 September 27th, 2012, 06:52 PM

Well it looks likeim having my 3rd girl. So in my opinion swaying, dieting, timing, positions all bologna because we abstained for 10 days, dtd only on ovulation day, doggy style position during a full moon blah blah blah and it still another girl, lol.

sharlers · #16 September 29th, 2012, 05:57 AM

congrats on your girl we could do a swap lol only kidding yeah i think that it doesnt work either how are you feeling about it xx

maybebaby6 · #17 November 6th, 2012, 07:17 AM

Sorry u heard boy! I know how u feel about gender disappointment! I have 5 daughters. I so wanted a boy! Just keep ur head up. When that baby is born u will forget all about ur prior feelings. Good luck.

sharlers · #18 November 6th, 2012, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by maybebaby6

Sorry u heard boy! I know how u feel about gender disappointment! I have 5 daughters. I so wanted a boy! Just keep ur head up. When that baby is born u will forget all about ur prior feelings. Good luck.

thankyou hun i have my good days and my bad ones im sorry you have all girls its a shame we cant get what we want it would be a lot easier so your trying again for a boy then i hope you end up with him i dont think my husband would entertain trying again and its also affording another too i know once hes born he ll be loved so much he already is the problem for me is not cause hes a boy its the fact i ll never have my princess i still cant look at little girls without being in floods of tears im sure it will settle over time thankyou for being so understanding xx

sharlers · #19 December 15th, 2012, 08:04 AM

well i have only 5 weeks to go before jayden will be here xx

BrittneyLA · #20 December 20th, 2012, 11:40 PM

Hugs! When I heard its a boy for the third time my heart deflated. I tried everything for my girl and had a horrible case of GD. Still do sometimes..when I walk past that pretty pink tutu or see the little girl smuggling her mama...its heartbreaking. We both know you will love that baby boy with all your heart, and your not sad about him...but. your mourning the daughter you might never have.