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January 16th, 2010, 04:56 PM
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I'm coming back to just mommies after about a year. My name is julz and I am 23 I have 2 boys Joshua who is 3 1/2 and Blake who is 1 1/2. Both of my boys need extra help in one way or another. Joshua has been diagnosed with ADHD and Blake has been classified as "mentally delayed"...I can't believe I'm sharing this with a bunch of women I don't know but if Mom's can't be there for eachother I figure theres just no hope.

I have been feeling super guilty lately because I am getting SO FRUSTRATED! I've been pushing and pulling extra hard trying to get Joshua into the "extra help" pre-school in our town. It's been taking forever and I have a feeling they are not going to except him even though he is cognativly, socially and emotionally delayed not to mention has the classification. I always wanted to home school him and still do but he's so hard to get to sit down that I don't know if he would actually learn anything from me.

Blake gets all kinds of therapy through early intervention at our home and is actually learning things. But getting him to actually do what he is learning for example the sign for more, give me, ect or say a few words that he has is near IMPOSSIBLE...I know I am not supposed to give in when he wines, but hearing him scream breaks my heart.

I love my boys and would do anything for them but sometimes i get so frustrated im in tears....please tell me i'm not alone!
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February 3rd, 2010, 09:16 PM
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Honey you are far from being alone... I have a 9 year old that is Devlopment delayed and a 6 year old speeach delayed and let me tell you at times I just want to scream my head off....

My 9 year old is ADD and ADHA so it's even harder to deal with at times. Just take a step back when you feel frustrated and know they feed off of you... at least mine does.

email me if you ever want to just talk I am here I know what you are going thou


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