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December 1st, 2005, 07:50 AM
Kirin'sMommy's Avatar Veteran
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Well See My little girl is 3 and I'm ready to have another baby and My hubby isnt. He thinks that if we just have her we can give her more and yes I understnad that but that not all a kid need sometimes I think. I dont want her to be really spoiled. But who know I just dnt a big age gap between them who knows what else can i do, Nothing. Well what would you do if you were me? Any advice
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December 30th, 2005, 06:57 PM
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If the reason he doesn't want more is so that you can provide for her future better how about asking him who she will have to lean on when you and your dh are sick or passed away? The greatest gift you can give your daughter are siblings who will be life-long friends and who can truly comfort her when the inevitable happens and you and dh aren't there for her anymore.
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December 30th, 2005, 07:07 PM
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i agree with zacksmama,thats the best you could give them but on the other hand dont do like a lot of other mamas do and do it without their agreeing to it too,ive seen a lot of divorces over that,maybe he just needs a little time,dont give up on him
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December 30th, 2005, 09:18 PM
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The greatest gift you can give your daughter are siblings who will be life-long friends and who can truly comfort her when the inevitable happens and you and dh aren't there for her anymore.[/b]
I totally agree on you zacksmama!
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December 31st, 2005, 06:32 PM
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I agree with the other gals. Good luck! Let us know how it goes. Really sit down and have a heart to heart with him and see if there could be a real reason why he doesnt want more.
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January 24th, 2006, 04:37 PM
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Thanks ladies for all the good advice i will update you guys
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