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Well I just want to say I have felt pretty lousy lately. As much as we love Emmett he is such a handful! The problem becomes that I really want to have another baby in a few years and that dream is swirling around the toilet bowl. DH is so not going for it right now. Everytime Emmett acts up he says " and you want another one?" and when I am frusturated with the kids and they are both having a bad day he makes sure to lay it on. I know along time ago we said that if we had a kid of each gender then we would likely stop there but I am really having a hard time coming to terms with that and I dont think that is what I want at all now. I cant imagine not being pregnant again, I am only just 25! Then again we were looking at houses on the internet (for when our term is up in a few years) and I liked this 4 bedroom and he said "what about the 5?" and he says 3 kids could have a room and then there would still be a spare for company. He just goes back and forth on it. We have decided not to do anything permanent about having/not having kids for three years. So I guess we will see in 3-4 years....I guess how I am feeling could change, it is just hard for me to even check in on the DDC thinking I may never be in one again....thanks for letting me get that off my chest! It makes me feel a little better.
If he is looking at bigger houses than you are, it sounds to me like he is planning on at least one more, but just not right away. Hang in there, I am sure the time will come that you both will have another!