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April 21st, 2006, 04:01 PM
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April 22nd, 2006, 12:07 AM
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I'm sorry you have to go through that appifanie! He needs to understand its time to sh*t or get off the pot! I am usually not one to suggest ultimatums, but in this case I would say its necessary. Tell him to stop making you pay for the sins of his ex, that is not your fault and not your cross to bear.
I hope everything works out for you....
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April 22nd, 2006, 12:32 AM
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On ur situation.. I dont really have any advice but do what you feel is best for you and ur child.. But I totally understand abut the mother thing.. Mine is the same way...
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April 22nd, 2006, 08:15 AM
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I agree with the other girls.. I am sorry to hear your finance is being so insensitive ~ especially considering your condition.
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April 22nd, 2006, 12:47 PM
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May 5th, 2006, 03:46 PM
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Here's my opinion--

First, stop talking to your mom about the situation. You should not be working in the state you're in!

As far as your DF goes... it sounds to me like he's just very, very stressed out. He might want to give you the wedding of your dreams, but feels like it's not the right time yet. It takes a lot of time and money to plan a wedding, and it's stressful! If he is working 70 hours a week, and you're high-risk and pregnant, I can totally understand why he doesn't want to do it right now!

I don't know... it's just a perspective, I don't know the whole story. But have you asked him why he's balking? Maybe he has a good reason for it. Men hate to be pressured, so maybe you should give him some space and let him decide on his own...?
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May 5th, 2006, 08:10 PM
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we got our license today - the shotgun wedding is tenatively set for wednesday. we'll have a nicer wedding w/ guests at some later date
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May 7th, 2006, 08:23 PM
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SWEET! Congrats!!!!!
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May 8th, 2006, 10:34 AM
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Great! Congratulations! I hope all your dreams come true.
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May 8th, 2006, 04:33 PM
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Congrats.. I wish u the best
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