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May 16th, 2006, 10:06 AM
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May 16th, 2006, 10:13 AM
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You deserve sp much better for yourself. I know that it is hard nd easier said than done, but I think you should just kick his sorry ***** to the curb. I am sending you lots of hugs and hope that you make the right decision for yourself and your children.
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May 16th, 2006, 11:08 AM
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hon ... I dont know what to say cause the only thing that comes to mind is that you married my ex husband! but of course I know that's not true ...

so here are oodles of huggles for you and I hope that things look up for you soon ... in the meantime you take very good care of YOU and your children.

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May 16th, 2006, 01:12 PM
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I hope you knew to expect that people would tell you that you need to get yourself OUT of that situation.. That man doesn't sound worth your tears!! You sound like such a "with it" together person.. you sound smart, and you must know that from the outside, he sounds abusive.. if not physically, then emotionally. He's trying to bring you down, to make himself feel better..

I really pray that you find the help you need to get it together for your kids at least. Your little daughter doesn't need a man like that as an example of what life should be like.. YOU be her example of what it's like to be a STRONG woman!!!

I wish I could help you.. Take care of yourself first, kids second, flies on the wall 3rd, then the man.. *HUGS* to you..

I hope this doesn't sound too harsh.. I'm just really feeling for ya..
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May 16th, 2006, 04:47 PM
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May 17th, 2006, 07:15 AM
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I just don't know what to say. I am dumb founded for words. I will make a post when I've totally gathered my thoughts!

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May 17th, 2006, 01:07 PM
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Why are you with this guy? You don't need him. You have a good job as a nurse.

He is not doing his job as a husband. He isn't a good provider. He isn't loving towards you (or not consistently). Would your life really change for the worse if he wasn't there anymore, or would it change for the better?
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May 17th, 2006, 02:57 PM
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May 17th, 2006, 05:18 PM
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You are a strong woman!!! It will be hard, but you and your children deserve to be loved and treated with respect, something it doesnt sound like he is capable of. (((HUGS)))
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May 19th, 2006, 05:13 AM
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hey. i dated that guy and he got me pregnant and he didn't give a crap when our baby was stillborn. and when we eventually broke up he got another girl pregnant.

and your story sounds similar to this girl i know.

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I don't know what keeps me in here other than I hate to think I failed at another marriage (he's my 2nd DH) or just hoping that he'll come around after the baby is born. I'm crazy I know. When I took my son to a psychiatrist before he told me that I am the type of person that seeks someone to take care of. Sad...sad. I want a man to take care of me.

Someday I will have my freedom and he will regret everything he's done!!![/b]
that's a horrible reason to stay w/ someone. it's bad for you and it's bad for your kids.

and you can't want a man to take care of you. you have to be secure in yourself and able to take care of yourself, otherwise you'll just keep settling and being miserable.

and he won't regret anything. guys like this don't because they just don't care.
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