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May 20th, 2006, 10:38 AM
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UGH! I'm ready to give mine away, to ANYONE!

We had plans for today. We were supposed to take Raine to the fair this morning, then we were supposed to go out tonight. We had planned this all week. I was really looking forward to going out tonight, it's been a very long and stressful week, and I was just DYING to go out and have some fun.

YESTERDAY he says too me that he switched shifts with someone at work, now he's going to work Saturday morning and they're going to work his sunday. I said what about taking Raine to the kiddie fair? He said he wanted Sunday morning off because he's going to go out Saturday night with some people from work. Ummm we had PLANS! He said since we're moving (May 30th) that this will be his last chance to go out with them. I DON'T CARE WE HAD PLANS FOR OVER A WEEK!!

Then he got all arguementative says what's the dire need that you have to go out on Saturday?! We have the rest of our lives to go out and do whatever we want, this is the last night I get to go out with them.

I have no DIRE need to go out, but I have been looking forward to it ALL week. Besides the fact that we NEVER go out, it's probably been 6 months since we last did anything together.

I am soooo angry!!!!! I could just SPIT!
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May 21st, 2006, 09:08 AM
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they really are a PITA sometimes, aren't they? and they just don't listen!
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May 22nd, 2006, 07:09 AM
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That sucks.. I think i woulda hit him!
Thats so rude of him to just blow you off like that. Well.. Id get him back next time you guys make plans you blow him off and see how it feels!
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May 22nd, 2006, 11:10 AM
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UGH! I'm ready to give mine away, to ANYONE!

We had plans for today. We were supposed to take Raine to the fair this morning, then we were supposed to go out tonight. We had planned this all week. I was really looking forward to going out tonight, it's been a very long and stressful week, and I was just DYING to go out and have some fun.

YESTERDAY he says too me that he switched shifts with someone at work, now he's going to work Saturday morning and they're going to work his sunday. I said what about taking Raine to the kiddie fair? He said he wanted Sunday morning off because he's going to go out Saturday night with some people from work. Ummm we had PLANS! He said since we're moving (May 30th) that this will be his last chance to go out with them. I DON'T CARE WE HAD PLANS FOR OVER A WEEK!!

Then he got all arguementative says what's the dire need that you have to go out on Saturday?! We have the rest of our lives to go out and do whatever we want, this is the last night I get to go out with them.

I have no DIRE need to go out, but I have been looking forward to it ALL week. Besides the fact that we NEVER go out, it's probably been 6 months since we last did anything together.

I am soooo angry!!!!! I could just SPIT![/b]
you spit honey ... go ahead and SPIT ...

quality time as a family is what you want right? understandable .... but you need quality time with your kiddo as well and if he's not willing to do that then by all means SPIT and just take kiddo out by yourself .... in the long run he's the one losing out and you've got the good memories of happy times!

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May 22nd, 2006, 12:27 PM
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That sucks girl!

Men are so stupid sometimes and so unaware of our feelings.
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May 23rd, 2006, 09:03 AM
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That sucks girl!

Men are so stupid sometimes and so unaware of our feelings.[/b]
(Or is it they EXPECT you NOT to be upset... be the good, little, submissive housewife, right? We are free-thinkers now man!)

I hope the weekend and a good talk helped..

Cheers girl, Michelle
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May 23rd, 2006, 05:05 PM
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He was feeling pretty guilty come sunday. Especially since he CALLED me to tell me that Saturday he probably wouldn't be home until late for supper, so if I was making something, not too worry about him, he'll just eat left overs! I couldn't believe my ears! I told him not too worry, I had no intentions of making him supper to blow me off and go out with his work buddies afterwards. SHEESH!

So Sunday we had to do some shopping, we went to the mall and he bought me a really expensive sweater that we couldn't afford, and I tee-shirt that I fell in love with. Usually he's talking me out of spending money, lol. Guilt can be a wonderful thing
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June 23rd, 2006, 09:36 PM
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I would of been really mad, that's not cool of him to do at all
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