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why, oh why, did i ever want to be a mother? i can't handle this. my life is over, my marriage is over, i don't have the freedom at my career anymore. my every minute is governed by puke and teething and fussing and constant entertainment of an 8 month old who doesn't appreciate a **** thing i do for him. or his father. or anyone else for that matter. and then my sister and mother have the nerve to whisper about me behind my back how awful i look and asking my husband if i'm sick or something i look so bad. thanks a lot. it just happens. sleepless and stressed out, pulled in too many directions at once and it's STILL not good enough. nothing is ever good enough. i can't understand why this is something we wanted, something we tried so hard for, something we lost multiple times and now that we have it, we wish we could send it back and start over. i feel like i'm never going to be happy or calm ever again.
BFP 9/4/09 - Michael John born 5/5/10
ectopic w/tube closure 3/24/09, 8w0d
2nd m/c 12/27/08, 5w2d
1st m/c 10/12/08, 4w6d
(((HUGS))) I agree with the other gals, sound like you really need to talk to someone!! No shame in feeling that way, it happens to the best of us, but it takes courage to go to your Dr and say that you need help. I had ppd with my middle one pretty badly, was on meds for a few months till things leveled back out and I was fine again.