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June 12th, 2006, 12:04 PM
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AHHH I want to scream, me and my fiancee share MSN..and I was looking at my message history..and hes been having convo's with other women, I waited till this one teenage girl was online and confronted her, saying I was Emma his fiancee, she kept swearing at me and giving me so much crap and blocked me.

What the hell? Do I talk to him about it? I'm due anyday really (expected to have a pre-term delivery) and I dont want to stress to much....its ALL to much
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June 12th, 2006, 12:22 PM
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I would definately talk to him about it....If you let it build up inside it will just stress you out more KWIM
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June 12th, 2006, 12:44 PM
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I can't imagine this is easy on you right now.. We'll be here for you girl.
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June 12th, 2006, 07:00 PM
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Def. Confront him about it. I understand that it may be stressful to talk to him about it but if you don't it will be even more stressful.. KWIM? Please let us know how your doing and if you ever need to talk just pm me.
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June 13th, 2006, 08:01 AM
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Oh, I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this right now. But I would deffinitely talk to him ASAP! Get it out in the open and talk to him about it. The sooner the better. Not only so that it doesnt build up inside of you and cause you more stress. But also, you are going to be giving birth soon and you will need to focus all of your energy and attention on giving birth and caring for your baby. And you need him there 100%, mentally, physically, emotionally to help you. The sooner you talk about it and move through it, the better off you will both be and then you can move on to the joy you will feel when you baby comes.


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June 23rd, 2006, 08:39 PM
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Omy. What a jerk, I would definately confront him! I had the same problem with an ex talking to random girls on MSN and random girl's from bar's on his cell phone :| (that's a whole other story, one reason why we're not together, haha) But anyways, try not to stress over it, just confront him and see what he has to say, hopefully it's nothing to worry about!! Good luck hun, you and your baby will be in my prayers **HUGS**
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June 23rd, 2006, 10:44 PM
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So sorry sweetie (((HUGS)))
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June 25th, 2006, 08:34 AM
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I would talk to him about it. That would make me mad to!
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June 25th, 2006, 12:27 PM
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I would definately talk to him about it. I posted my situation not long ago - and we are in a similar position. This will not go away, and you will continue to stress about it if you don't deal with it. Confronting him doesn't need to be done negatively - just state the facts and wait for a response. Be sure to tell him how this is making you feel, especially since you are at the end of your pregnancy. My DH started messaging girls when I was pregnant. I have a feeling that some men just feel "different" sexually about their wives when they are pregnant. My DH is not attracted to me at all when I am pregnant. Although this isn't an excuse in any way for his behaviour, perhaps it will help you better understand the motive.

Good luck!

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June 25th, 2006, 05:42 PM
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ohhhh if that was my DH I imagine he would be missing a few appendages.

YOu have every right to be upset!

There are times when an internet connection is not the best idea. It leads to a lot of problems. I suggest cutting off the internet for a couple of months (saving the money) and enjoying each other for a while.
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June 27th, 2006, 11:36 AM
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did you have your baby? did you talk to him about all of this? i hope it all works out for you hun. i hope you are doing ok.
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June 28th, 2006, 10:57 AM
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Definately talk to him and get this taken care of!!
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June 29th, 2006, 12:09 PM
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How are you doing now?
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June 29th, 2006, 04:11 PM
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Congrats on your lil Ava ! She is precious !

I would def. talk to him about it !!
That would make me furious !!!
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