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I feel like such a screw up. Theres always something i do wrong, i can never do anything right. Whether its at work or at home. I dont feel pretty and i feel like a screw up and i feel fat. Some comments were being made to be about going back for seconds (when i didnt have much on my plate to begin with) and then a someone joked about me being pregnant. Well i told everyone that was a lie but yet i still got a phone call from someone asking me if i was.
I have no motivation to get up and work out, i have cut my portions and eating healthier. So atleast i am doing that right.
I can't get my DH out of the house for a simple hike and picnic, or anything so im bumbed about that and ontop of everything else, i am very overwhelmed.
Im sorry you have to feel this way. It's not fun i'm sure. I can relate to you somewhat. I have the lowest of low self esteem you will probably ever see. But there comes a time when you have to say ya know what! The time for me is now and I need to make the BEST of what I got and I am who I am so take it or leave it! Here is a quote that I LOVE LOVE LOVE and read alot when I feel like crap.
I am STRONG because I am weak
I am Beautiful because I know my flaws
I am a Lover because I'm a fighter
I am Fearless because I have been afraid
I am WISE because I have been foolish
and I can Laugh because I've known sadness
Asd far as your DH, if I was you I would start to take walks alone. Boring I know. But for like 5 minutes, maybe 10 and then eventually I would think he would want to come. My DH was the same way for a little while. He liked to stay home all the time and not do anything. But he know walks the dog with me, we go to Walmart for no reason at all, just to walk and talk.
Some people are just in better words...build bigger. I am German, and let's just say i'm not small but i'm not huge. I eat like a bird, I don't eay snacks, I don't drink soda and still i'm not skinny. You are YOU and I am ME and WE are ourselves, we need to LOVE us for us! Your motivation for waking up should NOT be anyone but YOU! When you see that, things will fall into place and you as a person will feel better about yourself and you will see people treating you differently all in a positive way.