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July 20th, 2012, 05:15 PM
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I have been with my fiance since December of 2009. When I met him I knew he was raising his son who he had sole custody off.. He was never really a very nice guy but we got along good and I fell in love with him. When we got together I started to raise the little boy and eventually I became a full-time mom.. He was only 18 months at the time he is now 4. I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and my fiance is being such an ***. I live with my mom and we want to move to a bigger place with her so she can help me with the baby and he refuses to get a job to help. I work in a very stressful job and coming home feels like a whole other nightmare. He is currently doing an internship at a law office which pays him $0 and he goes 3 times a week. I help him with bills and put gas in his car (which I share with him) and he treats me like garbage or just plain ignores me half the time. He cares nothing about the baby I'm carrying and could care less about hearing anything about the baby. I had my first prenatal appointment last week which my best friend was planning to attend until he promised me he wanted to go and then ended up standing me up at the last minute because he didn't feel like going. I ended up going alone and was so nervous I cried in the waiting room. I really want to move to a bigger place since I currently live in a studio apartment but I'm scared that he will move in and not help me at all with the bills and only cause me more grief. I know I should leave him but it's easier said than done. I just needed to vent since I really have no one to talk to about this. Sorry this is so long
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July 20th, 2012, 07:22 PM
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((((hugs)))) Sorry he is being such a jerk! Have you sat down with him and talked things out?? You will eventually need to think long term, like do you want your child growing up thinking that is who you treat people or worse yet that his dad treats him horribly. At least you have your mom to help out. I think you need to talk to him or try going to counseling together to work through it. Hang in there!!!
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July 20th, 2012, 07:28 PM
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((((hugs)))) Sorry he is being such a jerk! Have you sat down with him and talked things out?? You will eventually need to think long term, like do you want your child growing up thinking that is who you treat people or worse yet that his dad treats him horribly. At least you have your mom to help out. I think you need to talk to him or try going to counseling together to work through it. Hang in there!!!
Thanks for your reply. I have tried several times to talk to him. I just think that im going to have to separate for a while and see what he does.
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