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May 27th, 2013, 11:18 AM
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Hi there.. I seem to be having some communication issues with my husband. He doesn't seem to get the issue of sacrifice. When we found out I was pregnant everything stopped. I was a smoker and quit. I enjoy wine, quit that as well. I've changed my whole life around with the excitement of this baby. Is it so much to ask that he do the same? He recently got a singing gig in a band. Now his weekends are dedicated to drinking and practicing with his new friends.. now don't get me wrong, I am proud of him and happy for his success, however this is kind of leaving me lonely and alone. I have been utterly sick this whole pregnancy and being alone on top of it is just flat out making me sad! I ask him to just talk to me, keep me in the loop and le t me know how long you're gonna be... is that so much to ask? I feel like a bullybut there is zero communication on his end and I'm ready to pull my hair out. Help!
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July 25th, 2013, 09:17 AM
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I'm sorry! What does he say when you do ask to talk or for more support? Have you told home how sad and alone you feel?
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December 17th, 2013, 10:40 AM
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he may just not know what you need. with my first son, i was always on DH's case until he finally cracked one night and asked me what the BLEEP i wanted him to do. and i thought about it and thought "well i guess i never told him WHAT i needed him for, just THAT i needed him".

maybe say 'can you get groceries, i'm very tired and want a nap'. or 'lets watch a movie together'. if he's anything like DH, he's going to need very clear instructions on what i expect.
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