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September 20th, 2004, 04:55 PM
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Twice this week already that my husband is out drinking with friends. Tonite it's with his single friends (2 of which are recently divorced) at Hooters to watch the game. He thinks I'm wrong for being mad. Friday, I was invited to a party one of my co workers were throwing and I didn't go b/c he was coming home early and he would have to watch our son if I went. I am ALWAYS thinking of him. He gets to go anywhere at the drop of a dime and I hardly get a free moment! I am sooo mad. :soapbox: I can't deal with this all pregnancy. I want to just kick his *****! :shutup: Anyway, have any of you had to deal with this? Any advice? I'm emotional as it is and this just makes it worse. RRrrrrr!!!!
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September 20th, 2004, 05:08 PM
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September 20th, 2004, 08:28 PM
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I have never had to deal with this. My hubby doesn't really go out very much at all without me, so I don't really have any advice. I will give you a hug though cause it sounds like you need it. I know how those pregnancy hormones are.
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September 21st, 2004, 05:00 AM
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Mike doesnt go out at all...But I can relate to him being able to do what he wants at the drop of a dime!!! I get mad alot that he can come and go and I have to ask for a break sometimes....He says he understands but he doesnt!! We have talked and talked and talked about this and it gets better for a little and goes right back to the same thing....I know its my fault just as much as it is his....But I do remind him that I didnt make this baby myself....It took 2!!
Sorry that I rambled(sp)!!

I hope it gets better for you....
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September 21st, 2004, 05:05 AM
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I had to deal with that right after I had Victoria...I let it go on for quite a while before I brought it up to him...

It took a couple of talks but he finally realized that he was going out ALL the time and leaving me home alone with with baby.

Sorry you're having to deal with this too...Hopefully it'll get better for you.
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September 21st, 2004, 08:32 AM
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:hugs: I would suggest you start doing some things for yourself so you don't resent him. Are you more upset that he is doing things and you are not, or are you really upset that he goes out at all? I bet if you would take some time for yourself, have him watch his own children, you would feel 100% better. Start thinking about yourself, he can take care of his needs obviously and not feel guilty, you need to do the same.

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September 21st, 2004, 10:49 AM
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(((((HUGS))))) to you! I hope things get better for you! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!


Thank GOD my hubby doesn`t like to drink and go out with the guys! We are together most of the time. We both like it that way!
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September 21st, 2004, 08:43 PM
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I beg for my DH to go out but he doesnt have friends, it is basically his brother that he hangs out with. Me on the other hand, granted we dont have a young child at home but I make sure that I get out once a week with friends. I either go to my SIL's house during the day or I go and hang out with some friends at Dunkin Donuts to either deliver AVON or just to have coffee with them.... but I do need to get out of the house once in a while
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