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My wedding is next september 24. That is a year away. My sil who Im kinda close to has sent me an email stating she will not attend the wedding b/c it clashes with her schedual. She is natoriously known as self centered. She has point blank told me to change our date and tried to guilt me for not having it done. Theres 14 people in our wedding party (she is NOT in it) and it was hard enough to accomidate all of their scheduals. I was the person who dd all the stupid errands for her wedding, took care of all the kids without being asked ; I was asumed Id babysit all kids all night...
She will have her 1st class next sept 24 and so wont attend. She says that when she is done she will come to the dinner/reception. Im mad!!!! When she and my brother were married I played nice and showed up with my ex monster for show. It was horrible. But I swallowed my pride and did it for her. Now I feel blown off. I was the person who dd all the stupid errands for her wedding, took care of all the kids without being asked ; I was asumed Id babysit all kids all night...
She is trying to make me feel bad... do I have reason to be ticked off?? :computer:
She didnt even have enough balls to tell me or call me.. she had to email me!!!
Hugs hun. Don't let it ruin your special day. Some people will just never see outside of the cloud that they live in. I know a few people who really do stand in the middle of their universe and think everything revolves around them. I would be pissed too, but screw her. Hugs,
I agree- don't change a THING for her. If she wants to act like an ##### then SHE will be the one people hold the grudge against, not you! This is your day and you should plan it according to what you want, not what everyone else wants.
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Now who is getting married you or her, she can just deal with it. Some people think that the world ONLY revolves around them!! Sounds like my DH's family!! This is YOUR day, screw her!! I can understand that you are upset, but dont let it ruin this special day. I guess if you really want her to be there, then talk to her & your brother and let them know how you are feeling. If this is just the first day of class for her, it is not like she is missing a whole lot.