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get this... this guy who lives with my step-grandpa calls my mom to tell my mom how sorry he is to hear the news (that im pregnant)... he then starts to go off about how his friends have been trying to have a baby/ or adopt for 2 years so if we wanted they would love to adopt my baby... my mom was like, that is no need....
im so pissed.. where do people get off(people who aren't related or have anything to do with my life) decided how my future is going to be... adoption is out of the question anyway... its my darling baby....
oh and eric(darling fiance) is outraged!!!!! :argue: :soapbox:
Oh hun I know EXACTLY how you feel. While I was pg, my brother's friend's MOTHER approached my mother and told her that if i 'didn't want the baby she'd be happy to adopt becuase she couldn't have any and what kind of mother would I make' OMG!!!! GRRRR these people BURN me. I saw this lady and she wanted to hold freja I'm like HELL no!!!
Originally posted by Alisteal@Oct 8 2004, 08:09 AM Oh hun I know EXACTLY how you feel. While I was pg, my brother's friend's MOTHER approached my mother and told her that if i 'didn't want the baby she'd be happy to adopt becuase she couldn't have any and what kind of mother would I make' OMG!!!! GRRRR these people BURN me. I saw this lady and she wanted to hold freja I'm like HELL no!!!
i hope you didn't let her hold her.... how rude to your sistuation also...
ha i can TOTALLY relate...even my own FAMILY was offering their friends my baby when i found out that i was preggo(especially with my first son) OMG i was TICKED ME THE HELL OFF...then they would proceed to tell me why they cant have kids and how its sooo sad..gimme a break..i mean i guess i can feel for them but its not MY problem or MY KIDS problem...they should be happy that WE mostly as single parents(or even if we are married its still MAINLY us who takes care of them) decide to take repsonsibility for our actions....ughhhh
my MIL even proceeded to TELL me that i was going to get an abortion with my first son...ha i just laughed at her...now that he is born she "loves him to death" i guess so since she wanted him dead in the first place...grrrr
anyway i can totally relate..people are sooooo freggin stupid sometimes....