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October 15th, 2004, 06:08 AM
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This lady is freaking CRAZY and I am about to tell her off!!!!
First off, Brian and I are not married so she is not my MIL, but we might as well be married anyway so I will call the b^tch my MIL.
Ok...the MIL has 5 grandkids. 4 from Brian (2 of which are my kids) and 1 from Brian's brother (who is the only boy grandbaby).
Well the MIL thinks she owns Brian's older 2 from his previous marriage. She spoils them rotten and takes them whenever they come up here and makes Brian feel guilty if HE wants to spend time with them I mean, HE"S THEIR FATHER!!! He only gets them everyother weekend and this lady wants them all the time!! Well this year Brian has started to stand up to her and say that "They are my kids and I miss them and want to see them." He has also made it so they can spend time with their grandparents too. Anyway, the MIL only calls the house if she thinks the girls are coming up for the weekend. She NEVER calls to say HI to her other grandchildren. (Brielle and Jillian) She never asks about them. She is always talking about the boy grandchild (J.J.) She talks as if he is HERS. "J.J. is my baby, J.J. did this, and J.J. can do that, and J.J. J.J. J.J......" She threw J.J.'s mom out of her house for a day because she took him for his first hair cut. I mean C'MON!!! It's her kid lady, not yours and he needed a haircut for pete's sake!!!!!!!!
She was talking to Brian awhile back and talking about 'her grandkids' and didn't mention Brielle or Jillian and Brian had to say, "Um mom, Brielle and Jillian are your grand daughters too."

So the lady calls today...and I NEVER answer the phone when I see her on the caller ID, but Brian has to work a double today so I thought I would be nice and answer so she knew the girls were not coming this weekend. I mean, that's the only reason she would be calling right?? So She asks if they are coming and I say no, not until next weekend. She starts going off!!!! "Well this is his weekend to have them!!!" I said "Actually no it's not because Aidan and Avery are going with their father this weekend so it's not because when Ali and Camryn come Aidan and Avery are here." "Well that's not what HE told me." I said, "Well they thought they might come this weekend for an extra weekend but then Camryn wanted to go to a sleepover at a friends house so they are not coming." "Well I scheduled my overtime around when the girls were coming right up until December and this is rediculous and I can't change it now because I will lose hours. He needs to get his sh*t straight and let us know what the he!! is going on!!" So I just sat there and let her b*tch about him and the situation over and over. Then she said"Well I will be here tonight so have him call me" I say "ok" in a snotty tone, lol. Then she says, "Goodbye" and I just hung up, lmao. (I will hear about that later from Brian because god forbid anyone be rude the the psycho.)

So, I am just mad. She calls my house and goes off on ME when I was trying to explain the situation. And you know what???? What plans go on between Brian and his ex I have NOTHING to do with!!! They are not my kids, Brian and his ex plan everything and she knows this but she went off on ME!!!!!! Brian will get an earful from me about this. I tell him all the time he needs to tell her to stop calling here 50 times on the weekends when the girls are here leaving snotty messages for someone to call her back. I don't call her house and do that. and she needs not to yell at me about something that I have no control over anyway. GRRR!!! and he doesn't get home until 2:30 and I want to complain to him NOW!!! Well at least I feel better about it being able to get it out on here. Thanks for listening girls!!
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October 15th, 2004, 07:25 AM
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What a witch!!! I would have been mad too!!!!
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October 15th, 2004, 01:17 PM
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my mom is the same way. that is the reason i cant be around her. i'm sorry. i feel your pain.
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October 15th, 2004, 02:02 PM
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Geez...I don't blame you for being upset. It sounds like this lady has some major issues. Makes me appreciate my MIL a whole lot more! (((HUGS))) to you for putting up with that crap!
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October 15th, 2004, 04:44 PM
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I'm sorry you have to put up with that!! (((Hugs)))
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October 15th, 2004, 07:43 PM
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Man, how in the world did you even manage to stay on the phone with her that long?? I would have been like KMA and hung up on her!!! Gee is her precious schedule messed up now? BOO HOO!!!
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October 15th, 2004, 10:08 PM
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I would of been like, talk to your son....."click".

My current MIL could give two "s**ts" on my son because it isnt my DH's (seriously) and my exMIL lives in Florida, so when she comes up here I reschedule anything I have planned so that she can see him.
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October 16th, 2004, 04:20 AM
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God help you!!!
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