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October 21st, 2004, 06:58 PM
ranidae
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Talked to my MIL today. I love my In-Laws but she pissed me off today. Informed me that since I am no longer on the IUD, and the mini pill is so unpredictible one of us should get fixed because we cannot afford anymore kids. She acutally told Jon today that he should go behind my back and get clipped without telling me because once it was done what could I say! Oh and that I better NOT forget my PILL because it will be all my fault if I do get pregnant.

Why does family have to feel that they know what is best for you? I am sorry but yes we have three kids, and yes money is tight, but not so tight that we couldnt afford another one. Plus it is our decision, not ANYONE elses. URGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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October 21st, 2004, 07:01 PM
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Hang in there. You have one of those in-laws like the rest of us, the know it all kind. I think that instead of George and John running for president, I think some of the inlaws should band together and run! They think they know everything else! I have heard the same crap when we were talking to his family, since we don't anymore, I have it made!! I can't stand those people!!
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October 22nd, 2004, 10:26 AM
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HUGS Rani--I would love to come out there and take some of my misplaced anger out on your family.
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October 22nd, 2004, 10:42 AM
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Grrr. Some people really piss me off lately! They should be a bit more supportive but oh well ... who needs family? You have JM! Just kidding!
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October 22nd, 2004, 11:15 AM
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Don't take this as criticism, but how does she know about your IUD? Don't tell people like that the intimate details of your life unless you want their input. You life will be much saner.

Of course, it would be nice if I could sometimes remember that before I open my own mouth
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October 22nd, 2004, 03:30 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by Alice@Oct 22 2004, 11:15 AM
Don't take this as criticism, but how does she know about your IUD? Don't tell people like that the intimate details of your life unless you want their input. You life will be much saner.

Of course, it would be nice if I could sometimes remember that before I open my own mouth
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She knows because Jon told her about the problems. He was supposed to go up to her house and do some work around the yard but due to the pain I was having this weekend he had to call and cancel. Plus his Mom is the only person he really talk to other than me. I wish there was a way to change that but it is just a little fact of life I have to deal with now, since he feels he doesnt have any friends. Which in my opinion is his own fault, he really doesnt make a effort to make friends, and I cannot make them for him.
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October 23rd, 2004, 03:45 PM
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hang in there. this makes me angry too. i dont think it is any one elses business but yours and DH's.
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October 24th, 2004, 02:13 PM
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Rani,

You know how much I've gotten from my In Laws! I SOOOOOOO understand!!!

And the clip job....they are getting to DH on that one.

Let me know if you need to talk!!! PM me or email me!!!!
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October 25th, 2004, 08:21 AM
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that would tick me off also!! hugs to you!
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