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  #1  
January 15th, 2008, 03:38 PM
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a long lost ex??
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January 16th, 2008, 02:31 AM
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No. There weren't any ex bfs I'd of wanted to contact. They were all loosers. I could of cared less where they went or what they are doing now. It was strange I had been married several years already. Some guy had contacted my parents house looking for me. My mother said I was married. It was a guy Jerry who I had a couple dates with. He was into drugs. I ended the relationship quickly. He was the friend of a guy a friend was dating. I think Jerry was looking for a one night stand or something. He didn't realize I moved on with my life. Actually I don't remember giving him my phone number. But must have.
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January 16th, 2008, 07:39 AM
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Not since being married. I just don't think it's appropriate at that point. If you run into each other out somewhere, that's one thing. But to purposefully try to contact someone would make me wonder what the intentions were.

Before I met DH, I looked up my old high school sweetheart on classmates.com. Never could find him though. I wasn't trying to get back with him, but he was my first love and I was feeling nostalgic and just wanted to see what he was up to.
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January 16th, 2008, 08:54 AM
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No I haven't. my exes and I didn't part on the best of terms and I have really no desire to contact them. Sure the thought has crossed my mind once or twice I wonder how they turned out, but I just wished them the best and that was it. I have no desire to find out.
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January 16th, 2008, 01:28 PM
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I have once. My first bf... I contacted him in 2006 and the last time we talked was in 1996. He just kept telling me he couldn't find another girl like me. That he still loved me...blah blah blah. not worth it. lol
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January 16th, 2008, 04:26 PM
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I occasionally talk to a couple of my ex's. We broke up in good terms, and I was friends with them for awhile before dating. DH is there when I talk to them, or see's the emails, so he doesn't care.
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January 27th, 2008, 07:19 PM
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I occasionally talk to a couple of my ex's. We broke up in good terms, and I was friends with them for awhile before dating. DH is there when I talk to them, or see's the emails, so he doesn't care.[/b]
same here. i'm still friends with a few of them, but they're all boyfriends from like highschool... nothing too serious, and DF doesn't have a problem with it.
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January 27th, 2008, 09:08 PM
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Nope!! No desire to, they are ex's for a reason. My best friend is actually an ex. We're better off as friends. My boyfriends not to happy with it, but oh well what can you do. They get along and all, its just a male ego thing I guess. Doesnt cause problems in our relationship which is all that matters.
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January 29th, 2008, 01:02 PM
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Nope, that's why their called my ex's!
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February 27th, 2008, 12:05 AM
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My ex actually contacted me... Our friendship blossomed again... I hadn't been with a guy in years... We ended up sleeping together. I got pregnant.

Last time I heard, his other daughter was born last month... He wants NOTHING to do with my baby (which is fine by me)...

Now I know why some things are better left in the past.
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February 28th, 2008, 02:22 PM
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My ex actually contacted me... Our friendship blossomed again... I hadn't been with a guy in years... We ended up sleeping together. I got pregnant.

Last time I heard, his other daughter was born last month... He wants NOTHING to do with my baby (which is fine by me)...

Now I know why some things are better left in the past.[/b]
Sorry he did that to you!! What a jerk!!
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April 13th, 2008, 12:36 PM
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I've never contacted any of my Exs again. The past is the past, besides i think most of them are jerks! I've had a couple get back in touch with me though.

One of them actually stole my mobile (cell) phone number out of a mutual friends phone while he was away at the toliet. He started texting me, wanting to meet up, blah blah blah, and still does sometimes, although i don't bother to reply.

Another of my Exs turned up drunk at my house. The house which we once shared, he turned up over a year and a half after we split. He was asleep on the front step, and I'd had some friends round until late and we went to the door to say goodbye and there he was. I asked him what the hell he was doing here and he kept saying "i live here, i live here, but the key doesn't fit" Eventually me and my friends convinced him he didn't live here, then he finally realised what he'd done. To his credit though he did call round the next day to apologise. Only i wasn't in, and my new boyfriend answered the door!!
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April 19th, 2008, 10:46 PM
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I have two of my three ex's on my facebook. lol. I don't keep in contact with them per say..
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