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I HAD this best friend, Shea, who I loved just about as much as anyone could love another person. We had been through it all together and I thought we would always be friends. UNTIL, a mutual friend ahowed me some e-mails that my supoosed best friend was saying that my dh wanted her and was going to leave me and my son for her and so on and so forth. I felt like my heart would just stop. I confronted her and she admitted to saying those things and to having been with my husband in a physical way (he admitted it, as well). I don't know who I was am hurt and angry at. I canot believe all of this. It's like a bad dream. You just had to know all of us. Her husband is one of the sweetest men God ever put on this planet and he was my dh best friend. Now all is lost and I feel more alone and suspicious of people everyday. Am I not the most stupid person on this planet to have all of this going on and just idly standing by while it was happening? Oh well, thanks for "listening" to my whining! I hope none of you ever have to go through this!!!!!
We are working on it.... as for said friend, that is over for sure. I see her all of the time and feel like ... well ... it's not pretty thoughts. She just acts like all is well and that I over reacted. It's messed up. Our kids were playmates and now my ds doesn't know why he doesn't see her dd anymore. I can't exactly tell him so I try to avoid it as much as I can. I feel like a fool for being did that way but there are times when I miss her... now that is warped for sure.
Your quotes are true, I know and I am holding on to the hope that time will heal all wounds and I wil just get stronger... keep the hope for me!!!!!
Hi. I'm new to this board and figured I'd see what was going on in here. This made me so mad when I read this. Has anyone told or considered telling the other husband? If your ex-friend thinks you're over reacting well maybe she wouldn't mind that her husband knew. I know it sounds evil but in my opinion (and that's all it is) I think he should know too.
Oh you poor thing. I really feel for you. I would be sad and angry about this type of situation if it were me. BUT I would put my husband before any friend. He is the one you made the commitment to for life and married. You have a life with him and a family (and a child I assume). She is just an acquaintance and now a very horrible person for invading on your life in such a way. I really hope things work out for the best for you and your husband. If it were me I'd honestly care nothing about someone like that friend of your's but that's just me.