[LJD3Tdance]

Do you have anyone in your life (RL or online) who you dread hearing what they have to say in response to what's going on in your life because no matter what you do they always have something judgmental to say?

[RinkMom]

Yes, my fIL. My mother too in her naive way.

[K.A.T]

Yes, almost his entire family. Especially his mom and younger sister. She is truly the child were the apple did not fall far from the tree. Lives off of assumptions and swearing she knows it all, even if she doesn't have an education, she knows more than you.

[Lucia_mommy]

OMg YEs so many , too many unfortunately IT seems all Dutch people are like that! Most women here have children between 35-40 and I had my first at 18, and now I'm definately weird for having another one and now another one lol. Most also have only 1 or 2 kids so they stare at me the whole time for having the third. People have really asked me this: "Was it another accident?" (note the ANOHTER! RUDE!!!!!) , and: "Are you going to keep trying for a boy?". ......... Sometimes I just wanna attack them lol

[LJD3Tdance]

To me there are a lot of people in my life like that. I find myself hating seeing certain names on facebook or here at JM because they catch me off guard by finding things wrong with things in everyone's life.

[Lucia_mommy]

Ugh that sucks so much You should be proud of your beautiful kids, don't let that bother you
IT's what I try to do, but I find now that I'm preggy things get to me more and more. I'm upset very easily

[LJD3Tdance]

I'm always upset very easily, too sensitive I suppose, but sensitive people have our place too...

[Mom2Brendan]

Totally have one family member that is very Judgemental that some people didn't like me complaining of this person so much that they complained about me always complaining of this person.

Many times I realized people IRL in my past saw what upset me when I'm around this someone because this person would even whine about other ppl around her/him or even whine about them.

So for someone not meeting a person I know IRL that is extremely judgemental and you haven't ,met this person don't whine to me about how I complain about this person alot as they say it's better to talk it out and sometimes message boards are the only way I can vent because if I vent to someone that is IRL that knows the person I vent about it gets repeated back to that person so I look like a b*tch because they don't see this person do the bad so they don't understand but feel like they have to repeat everything I say

[sarahmomma]

my sister is very judgemental which used to bother me but now I roll my eyes. she likes to walk around believing that she is more succesful in life than I am because she went to college but it is bs. I am a married mother of four and am lucky enough that dh's job allows me to stay home and care for our kids and I bought my first house when I was 21. She will be 26 in March and lives in my Dad's basement, is still paying off college debt, does not work in her field and is dating a 45 year old who does not want kids or marriage even though she wants those things.

[boberrymom]

I am sure alot of people in my family are judgemental towards me but i honestly don't care. I know as i was younger with a baby at 18 they were more so, but really looking back at it....i did my own thing and didn't worry about them....it was my choice to prove them wrong and now i look at where i am and boy were they wrong...i succeeded in proving them wrong. Now people do have a lot less to say. They say their peace but know i am going to do whatever i want. I make decisions based my family now and how it would affect them. If i keep them in mind at all times, i will make the right decision in the end.

[jenny poo27]

ugh my family is a piece of work right now.....they are being very judgmental and just plan old mean
....but hey karma's a ***** and i hope one day one of them needs one of my kidneys LOL