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May 1st, 2008, 04:34 AM
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Where has the time gone, I can't believe DH and I have been TTC for 14 months, everytime I get more scared that this is never going to happen, the only thing that keeps me somewhat optimistic is that if I don't get a bfp this cycle, I might get clomid for the next one, but at the sametime I'm afraid not even the clomid is going to work, I'm on cd10 no signs of O, I thought I had some cramps and cm 2 days ago I took an opk and it was stark white, last cycle I o'ed late on CD16 and then AF came early, so I have no idea how this cycle is going to go.

Sorry for the vent I just feel crappy
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May 1st, 2008, 05:37 AM
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I'm at your point! With DH gone it doesn't help. Like now I'm on CD16 and still just "high" on the monitor.
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May 1st, 2008, 06:05 AM
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I try to stay as positive as I can and really think this is going to happen, but it gets harder every month.
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May 1st, 2008, 06:38 AM
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I am sure it will happen. I felt that way too way back when, then I found out about the diabetes, and that is what was causing the problems. Now I am back in the game and ready to go! Stick with it, it will happen!

It sometimes helps me to think it is only a once a month thing. If you factor in that 14 months means only 14 tries, then minus the months you were on bcp, it doesn't sound as bad. And next month push push for the clomid! We need any edge we can get, LOL
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May 1st, 2008, 07:11 AM
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I am sure it will happen. I felt that way too way back when, then I found out about the diabetes, and that is what was causing the problems. Now I am back in the game and ready to go! Stick with it, it will happen!

It sometimes helps me to think it is only a once a month thing. If you factor in that 14 months means only 14 tries, then minus the months you were on bcp, it doesn't sound as bad. And next month push push for the clomid! We need any edge we can get, LOL[/b]
yes I'm definetly pushing for the clomid
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May 1st, 2008, 01:46 PM
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I try to stay as positive as I can and really think this is going to happen, but it gets harder every month.[/b]
Yes, it certainly does. We are on cycle 84 .That's with taking out the 3 months I was on BCP to 'regulate my cycle.' That's 84 months of unprotected sex, laying down for 10-20 minutes after sex, numerous doctors telling me that the only thing I need is more BCP, and all the other crap.

And it's hard. It's hard as hell. It was hard when the first year past, nothing happened, and everyone around me was pregnant. But, there's a good chance that it will happen, and that's what we have to remember if we keep going. Sure, some women never get to have children, but look around you at all the people. Most do have children, even with infertility issues.




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May 1st, 2008, 03:40 PM
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I try to stay as positive as I can and really think this is going to happen, but it gets harder every month.[/b]
Yes, it certainly does. We are on cycle 84 .That's with taking out the 3 months I was on BCP to 'regulate my cycle.' That's 84 months of unprotected sex, laying down for 10-20 minutes after sex, numerous doctors telling me that the only thing I need is more BCP, and all the other crap.

And it's hard. It's hard as hell. It was hard when the first year past, nothing happened, and everyone around me was pregnant. But, there's a good chance that it will happen, and that's what we have to remember if we keep going. Sure, some women never get to have children, but look around you at all the people. Most do have children, even with infertility issues.





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May 1st, 2008, 04:24 PM
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Hang in there girl I know it will happen for you!
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Me: 31 DH: 30 TTC since: May 2007 Married: 9/18/2004 S/A - Normal
HSG results: left block tube/but was able to clear (2/6/08)
Started 1st cycle of Clomid 50 mg - 3/29 BFN! Started 2nd cycle of Clomid 50 mg - 4/27 BFN!
Started 3rd cycle of Clomid 50 mg - 5/25 BFN! Lapro Aug 11. Lasered 2 adhesions on left tube but everything looks great!!
Started Clomid Sept 12-16 - Had 150 IU of Follistim on Sept 19 - Follies collapsed - Blood work all came back in range NO PCOS ..
Started Femara 2.5 3-7 u/s 10/22 Follistim injections 10/24,25 & 26
Follie Scan 2 were mature, 17.8mm & 16.8mm Doctor gave me trigger 10/26 and IUI 10/27 Tested - Nov 8 13dpiui and BFN
Started Femara & Follistim - we have 1 follie 18mm - trigger 11/21 and IUI 11/22 Testing on 12/6 BFN

On A TTC BREAK Out of the blue (1st unmedicated cycle since 3/08) BFP 2/7/09
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May 1st, 2008, 04:33 PM
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Thank You girls
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May 1st, 2008, 05:14 PM
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Hey Hun!!! I know how you feel!!! Just try and stay positive (I know its hard)!! We are all here for you!! And I know eventually you will get that well deserved
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May 1st, 2008, 06:17 PM
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Well after talking to my friend today she's starting to think I have PCOS. I have some of the symptoms plus I've got a maternal history of Endo.
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May 1st, 2008, 06:59 PM
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Well after talking to my friend today she's starting to think I have PCOS. I have some of the symptoms plus I've got a maternal history of Endo.[/b]
What exactly are the symptoms of PCOS?
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May 1st, 2008, 07:13 PM
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Well after talking to my friend today she's starting to think I have PCOS. I have some of the symptoms plus I've got a maternal history of Endo.[/b]
What exactly are the symptoms of PCOS?
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what symtoms are you feeling nicole?
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May 1st, 2008, 07:15 PM
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Dark thick hair on my body. Prior to going on BCP my cycles were all over the place. Around ovulation I sharp shooting pains in my sides. I've had "pre diabetes's" for a while, but my Dr always thought it was because I've got a family history on both sides for it. Seem to have weight gain
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