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May 14th, 2008, 09:05 PM
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So today after DH's trucking appointment and calling companies I have been pretty excited, alot of stress will be leaving us with his job paying much better. But on the way home in the car just now I completely 180-ed. Something got me to thinking about TTC (probably that I can feel AF coming on any moment now). I counted all the months in my head and as soon as AF comes that is 44 months we've been trying. I always say the first 3-4 months are so were just "not preventing" but we were bding at least every other day so I consider it the same. I dunno wether it's the number, or hormones, or what but I thought about that number and I just felt so hopeless! I am feeling like this will just never ever happen for us. Last month was the hardest so far, I had finally started thinking really positive and I was two weeks late. It seems like this month will be even harder and the next after that etc. We try saying we are going to take a break, but no matter how I try I am constantly thinking "what if this is the month" "if we bd now will it happen?", I can't seem to get away from thinking about it. *sigh* sorry if this is a downer girls, I just needed to get it out.
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May 14th, 2008, 09:13 PM
ZaydensMomma's Avatar Aaron Nicole
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I went through this the other day. and I am still crying about it... it hurts....

Have you gotten to a RE yet???
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May 14th, 2008, 09:23 PM
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I've had a few tests but no RE yet, our insurance requires referrals from my general doctor, and although the Gyno I see says I should go, my regular doctor won't let me. On the upside (although it's not making me feel better atm lol) when DH does get into this job we will both have insurance in 3 months.
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May 14th, 2008, 11:07 PM
ZaydensMomma's Avatar Aaron Nicole
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Your OB is the one who gives referral not the general doctor.
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May 14th, 2008, 11:39 PM
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I have medicaid right now, and I can only even see my Gyne when I get a referral from my general, I can't even let my Gyno do my yearly pap without a specific referral for it.
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May 15th, 2008, 12:17 AM
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Huh? That's weird. I'm on Medicare and I do not need a referral to the OB/Gyn. That's odd!!!
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May 15th, 2008, 07:45 PM
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May 15th, 2008, 07:55 PM
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Why won't your Dr give the referal? I'd be looking for a new one of mine didn't. Heck mine skipped the OB and went right to the RE.
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May 15th, 2008, 09:18 PM
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Well my general doctor takes one look at my age (21 in august) and tells me the whole "relax" story. But that's nothing compared to the look I get when I say it's been 3 1/2 years. I completely understand the age concern, I thought I was crazy at the time too but I wanted it more than I thought I was crazy, and DH and I were in the position to be able to handle it. It drives me crazy that she takes one look at my age and it suddenly doesn't matter how concerned I am. My worker is no help in getting her changed either. I will just be stuck waiting for DH's insurance to kick in once he gets into trucking I guess.


Aaron what state are you in? I don't know much about everything as I get the runaround alot when I am looking for info. Maybe it is a MI thing? All I know is my Gyno handed me an RE's card and told me to see what my Gen could do about it.
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May 15th, 2008, 10:59 PM
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I'm so sorry hun! If I were you, I would find a new doctor! I am on the younger side, so I know how it feels for the doctors to look at you, and tell you that you are too young, or you have plenty of time. Doctors shouldn't judge like that, but they do.
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