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March 17th, 2009, 11:03 PM
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This month is the 20th month of ttc #1 but no luck yet, I'm afraid that I'm gonna get my period again.. I hate thinkin "maybe this month" or "I think I am" and then BAM I have my period, but i know its not in my control. Well I just wanted to let it out.. so now i did. If anyone can please encourage me or something! Thanks
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March 17th, 2009, 11:43 PM
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Sorry you're feeling this way. I know how you feel and it's a horrible feeling. I just found out today that a friend is pregnant and she and her husband have been having very bad marital problems the last few months. It's a punch to the gut =( I hope you get your bfp this month!!
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March 18th, 2009, 12:45 AM
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Thank you guys so much for the support!!!
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March 18th, 2009, 09:43 AM
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Dx with PCOS at age 14.
Miscarriage in June 2006
2 cycles of Clomid 50mg
1 cycle of Clomid 100mg resulting in miscarriage
Dx with Adenomyosis on 1/28/10
Clomid 150mg 4/30(day 3) - 5/4(day 5) Ultrasound on May 10th.
5/10 - Ultrasound showed 2 perfect follies! (15mm&17mm) Ovulation predicted within 6 days! Progesterone check ordered for 5/20.
5/27 - New round of Clomid started, no ultrasound this cycle, 2 more cycles planned on our own. If no bfp, onto next step!
6/27 - Round 3 Clomid 150mg started.
7/25 - AF Showed, starting final round of Clomid 150mg on CD3
8/21- AF Showed, In the process of finding a new RE
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March 18th, 2009, 10:02 AM
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I know the feeling to a point. I've now hit the "I know I can get pregnant but I can't seem to carry it." stage and both stages really really suck!!! Just vent away!
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March 18th, 2009, 11:20 AM
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Hey Trudy,
Wondering is the worst isn't it? You can almost always convince yourself that you're preggo. I know I can. It's good to be hopeful sometimes but I have gone through many months where I just told myself it's not going to happen, just to lessen my disapointment.
This month I'm on clomid and I was excited but hubby got sick and we haven't been able to BD as much as I wanted to, so I'm not holding my breath.
Have you tried any fertility treatments? I found that after 3 years of trying, and one miscarriage, it gave me hope to try a new approach.
Hang in there, you're not alone
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March 18th, 2009, 11:21 AM
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Hey Trudy,
Wondering is the worst isn't it? You can almost always convince yourself that you're preggo. I know I can. It's good to be hopeful sometimes but I have gone through many months where I just told myself it's not going to happen, just to lessen my disapointment.
This month I'm on clomid and I was excited but hubby got sick and we haven't been able to BD as much as I wanted to, so I'm not holding my breath.
Have you tried any fertility treatments? I found that after 3 years of trying, and one miscarriage, it gave me hope to try a new approach.
Hang in there, you're not alone
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March 18th, 2009, 03:18 PM
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Thanks, yea we ahve tried fertility. This month was the 6th month on Clomiphene or clomid and nothing seems to work. We had an appointment on Monday and he gave me a prescription for another 6 months of clomid. He wants to do an IUI but it is supposed to cost us $200 and we cant afford that right now. Im so discouraged some days. Thank you guys for your support. It means a lot.
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March 18th, 2009, 07:27 PM
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Someone else said it best...I can deal with being pregnant or not pregnant, but I don't know how to deal with the in-between time when I'm not sure what I am. It is awful to be hopeful knowing that you might be in for more disappointment.

I hope this is your month so you don't have to wonder any more.
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March 19th, 2009, 03:05 PM
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Thank you!!
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I know it seems like it will never happen.. but it will..I wish you that best of luck.. and I hope you get you BFP soon.
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March 19th, 2009, 11:43 PM
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aww..im sorry!! i know..its tough...i am feeling pretty down myself...i just found out a childhood friend is not only pregnant..but with twins!! she already has two so i know whatcha mean!! i hope you feel better!! good luck!!
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March 20th, 2009, 03:59 PM
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it's so hard to keep the faith, but it's very important to do so. what i do is usually try to find something that keeps me busy and unable to stress over it. some months is easier than others forsure!!! take up knitting or something else you might enjoy and channel your energy in other areas. G/L and HUGS - i hope af doesn't show and you get your bfp!!!!
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March 21st, 2009, 12:11 AM
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Thank you Lynda.. I do crocheting but i never get around to it! Lol i know i should. I wanted to do scrapbooking but i dont have enough pictures to do that .. thank you guys for all your support it means alot
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March 23rd, 2009, 06:54 PM
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Hang in there you'll get your BFP. DH and I have been trying for over two years. I'm in denial and won't go to a fertility specialist yet. I'm trying out a very different method first.
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March 24th, 2009, 12:51 AM
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What kinda of method would that be?
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March 24th, 2009, 05:30 AM
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I went to go consult with a shaman (I was raised with Shamanism but I was also baptized as a child.) Anyways my SIL's brother is a shaman. He said the reason why DH and I can't conceive is because our "spiritual bridge" is very dirty and dusty. He did his shaman thing and said we should be fine. He said that the next time we see him I'll be either pregnant or holding a baby He doesn't charge for his service so it didn't cost us a thing. (Plus I got to spend time with my family). Now all I have to do is BD and see if I'll end up pregnant.

If this doesn't work out, I'll go check a Chinese fertility specialist or someone who specializes in the Hunyuan method. Western medicine is going to be my last resort.

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March 26th, 2009, 04:07 PM
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ok. Well the best of luck to you!
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