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I used to spend all day on jm when i first started ttc, i tried all the tricks, even purchased pre-seed, and charted also managing to find out my CP without knowing what i was feeling for!
But after about 12 months i started to obsess too much, and watching all the wonderful people i met get their BFP's and have their long awaited babies, it was a great but it started to make me nervous...why was it not happening for me?
So i took a little break from JM, but kept checking in and seeing more people i know having success after over a year and i thought well, its been 14 months and i know there are other women out there who know how it feels so of course i had to log on and instead of going straight the TTC i came here to read about other ladies having the same problems trying to get pg.
I havent had any testing, ive so far stayed naive to the face that there may be a problem and honestly i dont know if i could handle hearing that.
So i was hoping i could get some advice, or maybe some other suggestions that have worked for others after a year or more of trying. I have two children and both were conceived without effort or planning, i guess i hoped it would be the same third time around.
Im not on CD9, and because of either incorrect temping or charting i cant seem to pin point the day that i O apart from a bit of cramping for a few days mid-cycle i am only really guessing and BD'ing when i 'think' i have a good chance of conception.
If anyone has any tips or similar stories id really like to hear them!