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December 23rd, 2010, 11:46 AM
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So, DH dropped off another deposit for his second SA. Last night, he says, tell me why I am doing this again when everything was ok the first time. I said, well, it is a follow up and we still are not pregnant!

I had to leave the house for him to DTD, which was not a problem at all b/c I had some more shopping to do. However, he calls me when he has dropped it off and says well I have some bad news. He says he didn't get it all in the cup and traffic was backed up which caused him to be about 45 minutes off. I said well, hopefully, it will still be ok. I said this will be our third round on clomid and maybe this 3rd time will be it for us! The third time is the charm, right?!?! Then he tells me that that is the most positive I have been for 8 months! I really don't think that is the case.

He has been sooooo moody today all b/c of a little deposit! Does he not understand all that my body has to go through every month just b/c I am taking hormones! Plus, what about all of the lovely tests that I have been through!! Why do men have to be such babies??!?! He keeps saying, gah.....what a day!!! Give me a break!
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DH=42.......SA's off the charts!!!
Me=33........unexplained
One year on our own=BFNs
Clomid+BDing (4 months)=BFNs
IUI #1 Feb. 2011=BFN
IUI #2 Apr. 2011=BFN
1st RE appt.=May 2011
1st IVF cycle June/July=delayed due to OHSS concern
10 Snowbabies!!!!!!!
1st FET Oct. 2011=BFP!!!!!!
Beta #1=1,398
Beta #2=8,032
Beta #3=14,955
11/10/11=1st u/s
WOW, two babies.........
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December 23rd, 2010, 12:23 PM
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Ugh, I have one just like that as well. Everything he has to do is a BATTLE! It pisses me off, I'M doing everything, all he has to do is "have fun"....
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6 IUIs:

IVF #1 (september 2012): 11 eggs, none fertilized, no transfer
IVF ICSI #1 (may 2013), 1 blastocyst: (m/c 7 weeks )
FET #1 (october 2013), 1 blastocyst:

IVF ICSI #2 (april 2014): 5 eggs, 4 fertilized, 2 bad quality embryos, no transfer
IVF ICSI #2.1 (coming soon)
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December 24th, 2010, 05:11 AM
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My DH can be like that sometimes too. He made a stink about his SA...but I'm the one on all the meds who thinks about it all of the time. Ugh.

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December 24th, 2010, 07:53 AM
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It does make me feel better to know that he is not the only one like this and I am not the only one dealing with this!!! He even said yesterday that there was no way he would be able to do that again and that it was just terrible the way that the ladies working there looked at him. GIVE ME A BREAK! I said well if we wind up going the IUI route, I am pretty sure you'll have to do that again. Then, he had the nerve to say, well, I could do that. Ahhhhh.......happy holidays to us! Plus, I get to start my 3rd round of clomid tonight! I asked him to be a little more sensitive over the next couple of days b/c I may not be myself! To top it all off, I get to spend it at my in-laws! Don't get me wrong, they are not terrible, it just won't be our house.
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TTC #1 since August 2009

DH=42.......SA's off the charts!!!
Me=33........unexplained
One year on our own=BFNs
Clomid+BDing (4 months)=BFNs
IUI #1 Feb. 2011=BFN
IUI #2 Apr. 2011=BFN
1st RE appt.=May 2011
1st IVF cycle June/July=delayed due to OHSS concern
10 Snowbabies!!!!!!!
1st FET Oct. 2011=BFP!!!!!!
Beta #1=1,398
Beta #2=8,032
Beta #3=14,955
11/10/11=1st u/s
WOW, two babies.........
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December 24th, 2010, 08:22 AM
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6 IUIs:

IVF #1 (september 2012): 11 eggs, none fertilized, no transfer
IVF ICSI #1 (may 2013), 1 blastocyst: (m/c 7 weeks )
FET #1 (october 2013), 1 blastocyst:

IVF ICSI #2 (april 2014): 5 eggs, 4 fertilized, 2 bad quality embryos, no transfer
IVF ICSI #2.1 (coming soon)
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December 24th, 2010, 10:45 AM
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Sorry he is being such a butthead. I hope your day gets better. His attitude towards the whole thing might be that he's feeling inadequate that he can't get your pg without medical assistance...I know my DH has gone through a couple phases like that throughout our process.
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December 24th, 2010, 11:21 AM
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