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Fertile People Suck and other rants about my infertility


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January 19th, 2011, 04:01 PM
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This post is mostly a rant and yes I know that not all fertile people suck but If I don't put this out some where I just might go crazy


In the past two days I have found out that two friends are expecting, one I am thrilled for as she has been trying for a long time , the other didn't want any more children

My Morning started with my temp dropping below my coverline and it is only 8 DPO. After a little bit of crying I was able to get myself together with the hope that I could talk my Dr into givng me a progesterone supplement after I found out the results of Monday's progesterone test.

Instead I get a message from my Doctor's nurse telling me that the lab was unable to complete the test because the didn't have enough blood. She also told me that since the progesterone test wasn't able to be done on day 21 that I would have to stay on this dose of Femara without any changes for another month. I asked her if I could please get a progesterone supplement for the rest of this cycle, her reply to me was " Femara is a Progesterone supplement".

SO because of someone in the lab's stupidity and the nurse being a complete moran this whole cycle has been a waste.

I was at work when I found this out and the ladies that I work ( who were very fertile and both had to have their tubes tied cause " they would be like the duggars if the didn't ") with just said "Well just relax it will happen when you are meant to be pregnant" I think that you are just trying to hard

I feel like screaming and crying but all that does is make my head hurt worse.


On a side note I also think that those people who ride around with all of the little stick kids on the back of their cars are just bragging about how freaking fertile they are and should be rear ended for good measure....
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January 19th, 2011, 04:16 PM
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"Well just relax it will happen when you are meant to be pregnant" I think that you are just trying to hard
Ugh, I was told that too They just don't understand! No one can! It's so easy to say that!!!

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January 19th, 2011, 04:20 PM
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Many hugs sent your way!!

Some days are easier than other days, but it all comes down to people not understanding what we are all going through!

Just let it rip when you need to! We will listen away!
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January 19th, 2011, 05:02 PM
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"Well just relax it will happen when you are meant to be pregnant" I think that you are just trying to hard
I think it's the smiley that made me laugh about this. [: I understand your pain tho girl. thats the WORST thing someone can say!


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On a side note I also think that those people who ride around with all of the little stick kids on the back of their cars are just bragging about how freaking fertile they are and should be rear ended for good measure....
I AGREE!
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January 20th, 2011, 06:16 AM
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On a side note I also think that those people who ride around with all of the little stick kids on the back of their cars are just bragging about how freaking fertile they are and should be rear ended for good measure....
I have to say, this comment made me laugh...I think this ALL the time. Glad I'm not alone!

I'm really sorry you are having such a hard time right now and someone wasn't bright enough to take enough blood for your tests. Thats not fair...why should you be punished for someone else's stupidity.
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January 20th, 2011, 10:22 AM
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awww hun im so sorry

the worst thing any one says is "just relax" errrmmm have you every suffered form infetility??

stupid a s s comments
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January 20th, 2011, 03:06 PM
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Ugh...I'm so sorry about your dr. office's DUMBness. That stinks!! I'd be upset too. I can't handle when people don't want kids or have "accidents" anymore. Nothing makes me more upset than that...

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On a side note I also think that those people who ride around with all of the little stick kids on the back of their cars are just bragging about how freaking fertile they are and should be rear ended for good measure....
That made me LOL!
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January 20th, 2011, 04:38 PM
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Ugh. I'm mad at your doctor's office for you....one thing I have learned on this journey is you really have to be your own advocate and not just assume your doctor and their staff is staying on top of things (you would think they would, it's their job after all ).

I do have say your post made me laugh a little, and I haven't done much of that this week, so thanks for that....

Whenever some fertile friend tells me to just relax and not be stressed and to be thankful that at least I have one child, I wonder if they would tell a terminal cancer patient, "Just relax and don't stress about it. You'll be cured when the time is right. Oh, and just be thankful you got to live for 25 years..."

Plus, does nobody understand that it's not like we started out stressed. No, we started out relaxed, excited, and hopeful that we would soon be pregnant and having a baby. If relaxing made it happen, it would happen on the first try and we would never have to get stressed in the first place...
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January 20th, 2011, 05:45 PM
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Plus, does nobody understand that it's not like we started out stressed. No, we started out relaxed, excited, and hopeful that we would soon be pregnant and having a baby. If relaxing made it happen, it would happen on the first try and we would never have to get stressed in the first place...
I agree with this 1 Million percent!
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