[samantharae]

first let me start off by saying i have some family members that are REALLY screwed up. dont judge me <3 lol.

so my cousin just posted on her facebook that she's pregnant. this is exactly what she posted. "ok. So I'm getting a lot of questions about my weight. So I may as well tel everyone. Will and I r expecting. I go to my first doctors appointment on the 25th. We were surprized and upset at first but things are great and we r now excited. So yes I'm gaining weight but its for a good reason"

i feel like i just got slapped in the face & punched in the stomach at the same time. she had her first child at 16 (the father is her first cousin! yes! her dad's sister's son!) she doesn't have custody of him because she ran off, got into prostitution & meth and oviously wasn't going to step up to be a mother. now she's with a guy that cheats on her & treats her terribly then goes & buys her stuff & she forgives him. shes a "masseuse" or so she says massages are what she does =/ i just dont get how people like that can just pop out kids like its nothing & respectable women like us have to struggle so long to expand our families. <end rant> =) im so glad u ladies are here for me to rant to.

[Marieke]

I lost count of how many times I rolled my eyes reading your post... If that was my cousin and she was that much of a loser, I'd DELETE her &(?#! I've deleted a bunch of losers like that from my FB and I would do it for screwed up family members too if there was any.

I'm sorry you have lowlife idiots in your life, we all have them, the best thing we can do is stay away from them <--- and I do that oh so well! Call me pathetic but I've deleted pregnant women from my FB before just cause I was simply SICK of hearing them talk about their pregnancy and how fed up they were. If they're my friends, I try to tell them "politely" to STFU (sometimes) but most of the time I shrug it off and try to ignore them because deep down I do love them and they can't understand how we feel.

PS. I'm always here for you

[samantharae]

Originally Posted by Mrs. McFadden

I lost count of how many times I rolled my eyes reading your post... If that was my cousin and she was that much of a loser, I'd DELETE her &(?#! I've deleted a bunch of losers like that from my FB and I would do it for screwed up family members too if there was any.

I'm sorry you have lowlife idiots in your life, we all have them, the best thing we can do is stay away from them <--- and I do that oh so well! Call me pathetic but I've deleted pregnant women from my FB before just cause I was simply SICK of hearing them talk about their pregnancy and how fed up they were. If they're my friends, I try to tell them "politely" to STFU (sometimes) but most of the time I shrug it off and try to ignore them because deep down I do love them and they can't understand how we feel.

Originally Posted by Mrs. McFadden

PS. I'm always here for you

i u =)

i have been SO tempted to delete people just because they are pregnant & im tired of hearing them whine how they are so miserable & dont want to be pregnant anymore =/ its hard to delete her. when we were little we were SO close. i wish it was easy for me to just delete family. i hate feeling to jealous.

[BandGeek]

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else! Many !

I totally understand about fb. I had three people announce their pregnancies just last week. ugh.......when will it be our turn???

Hang in there!

[Coley54]

I often don't understand how people like that can get pregnant but people like us who have our sh*t together and WANT it and try for it can't get pregnant. Its not fair. I know what you mean about finding it difficult to delete family...I have 3 cousins...all of whom are pregnant and constantly posting that I'd love to delete simply because it hurts but I can't bring myself to do it. Hugs hun. You aren't alone.

[samantharae]

im so glad im not just being a selfish brat. or if i am i'm not alone =) u ladies are so awesome <3 i dunno where id be without yall!

BTW; i got an appointment with a new doctor on thursday (cd5) FINGERS CROSSED!

[Marieke]

Yay for a new doc!!! Hope you get the answers you're looking for! Keep us posted

[PregnantAtLast]

i hate this, i have a friend who sleeps around and has 1 son and was pregnant and i was jealous, then she lost the baby and i felt bad

for a new dr KUP!