Well, for me it's crazy as in it could have been dangerous and stupid. When I was in Wilmington, NC last year, I went to a bar with friends and I left, alone, with a guy I didn't know and spent the night with him. FYI, NOTHING happened, almost did but I couldn't be that stupid, I had a great husband at home and I didn't want to destroy everything, so I told him and he respected that. But the temptation was really there, it was hard to listen to that little voice in my head saying: "Marie don't do it!!!". We just walked around Wilmington and talked til like 4am. Then it got cold and we snuck into his car... We weren't drunk. Just felt so free. Being in Wilmington (for One Tree Hill) was like a dream, and that guy was part of it, but I still had complete control of my actions
Imagine what could have happened! I didn't even know that guy! What if he wouldn't have had feelings for me and just wanted sex? Maybe I wouldn't even be here today... I was really lucky... Although I had a good feeling that guy was being true and honest, you never know who you're dealing with. But he was a great guy. He drove me back to my hotel and didn't pressure me at all. There ARE good guys out there! But it could have turned out differently...
BTW: DH is aware, I can't keep secrets from him. I told him everything when I got back. He said he trusts me even more now