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I have been trying to conceive for about 3 years with no success. Just recently my husband was DX with varicocele and had the surgery done 2 weeks ago. I am not sure how long before there could be an inprovement in his sperm( he as low count, low mobility)
With me being the only member of my family without a baby and no luck having one it has been a emotional rollercoaster.
It has been even harder the last couple of months because my sister is on her fourth child, all of which weren't planned and here i am having trouble just having one. It doesn't help that at every single family get together everyone comes up to me and asks when we are having one.
I dont know where to turn...I have no one to talk to or no one that understands.
I have tried to be positive and hopeful but at this point i want to pull my hair out!!
I can totally relate...my DH and I have only been married two years this October and aren't planning on coming off BC until November...but we get those nagging questions at every family event. I feel for and hate that you are feeling like this.
I'm new here as well so far the ladies have been awesome. Remember stress causes our bodies to do crazy things...do some yoga to relax before and after those events.
My hubby and I have been ttc about as long - and it sucks! It seems like pretty much everybody I know has gotten pregnant in that time frame and it's so hard.
I hear you about the unplanned babies too...I've had a few friends who have gone through that in the last couple years, and while I feel like every baby is a blessing, it's hard to be happy when you've been trying so hard!