[MountainMomma]

Do you think its okay to keep secrets from your dh/so?

[MarieJ]

Sometimes, but not usually. It depends on the secret

[mjtamjj]

I agree I think it depends on the secret

[MountainMomma]

I definitely think that it depends on the situation and such.There are very few reasons why you should keep secrets from your spouse in my opinion though.

[prayingfor#2]

I think there are very few circumstances where lying is ok. Most secrets are bad and will only kill the trust in a marriage if they're found out.

[MamaAnna]

I think it depends on the secret. If you're lying because you're planning a surprise party then that can be great. If you're lying because you deliberately did something that you know would upset him then it's definitely bad. Of course if you can do things so you'll never be in a position to lie it's even better!